Hello there,

It’s Halloween not that I care I mean I don’t celebrate it. I never have before but I do love costumes and I was a leopard for work which was kinda fun but somehow I feel like it contradicts my belief because I don’t believe in that whole “thing”. Enough about me and what I believe in. 

Let’s talk about something interesting tonight...

What do I think about older guys?

I was asked that question before not directly but somehow I remember I was talking about how I would never date someone younger than me. Now I know what y’all think. I am not discriminating anyone about their age or nothing but this is my opinion and I will elaborate on it. Reason why I won’t date someone younger than me is because I cannot deal with immature guys. I know that I am not fully matured yet but I cannot date somebody who’s  not more mature or match my maturity. We are learning in our 20’s and we are bound to make mistake to learn. I don’t want to feel like I am babysitting a guy or just watching what he says to clarify what he meant to other people . Watching his action to apologize for it, looking after the way he carries himself afraid he might do something bad. A man is suppose to know what he’s doing, he’s supposed to know how to carry himself, how to talk to people and I shouldn’t have to tell him the way he should be. If I were to tell a guy the way he should be I feel like that would be me trying to change him. I don’t wanna have to change nobody. We are all our own bosses and we should be able to decide what’s best for us. 

Now do I prefer older guys ?

Actually, I don’t know but all I know is that he shouldn’t be younger than me he should be at least my age or a little older. That I’m okay with. I am getting older now and that whole boyish sort of thing don’t work for me. That whole let’s be one of those couple goals would simply not work for me. Well, I am glad that you’re reading this at least you’ll know how I feel about the world of dating. That doesn’t mean I don’t believe in love because I do I mean (I’m a poet) and a hopeless romantic. With that been said I am not blinded I know real when I see it and I know fake when see it. 

I’ll leave it on that note.

Have a good night.