• this was actually from march lol

    hey there, (finally post it)

    I said I was going to come back. I was taking a break from a lot of things (I still am) but a break from writing was not a good idea. If I wanna get better at it I have to keep doing it just like anything else in life. If you want to be good at something you have to keep doing it until you're good it or become talented at it. Let's talk about something.

    Life decisions?

    OK I know there are many decisions that one can make but I am going to talk about decisions that will matter in 5-10 years. Do you agree that some decisions you make in the prime of your life or when you're young will matter when you get older? If yes keep reading, If no scroll down to the next article. I don't have time to explain myself anymore you either get me or you don't. 

    Fast forward I digress once again... (It's really not about me) It's for you the reader.

    In my opinion, If you think before you make a decision you have a better chance to choose a good one, at least give yourself a day or two to ponder over it if that decision will affect your life in any way possible. For example when you're choosing a mate you have to make sure you take your time to study the person...learn everything about them like what makes them happy, mad, jealous, anxious .... so when things get hard you know at least how to make things better based on your knowledge of that person, make sure you don't just jump right in because the person looks appealing. Beauty fades, I am not saying you should find yourself an unattractive mate no that's not what I mean. When I was younger I used to look for the cutest guy because I thought we would look good together but with time I realize choosing a mate is more than just looks. If you plan on buying a car that's a decision that will affect not only your life but your finance. It would be good if you don't rush the process to take your time to look at different cars and pick one of the best based on your taste. I remember when I was getting a car this year (I think I can share this with you lol) after my car accident I needed a new car and a way better one than the one that I had because I was traumatized. I needed one with great tires (don't ask me why just read my testimony post you'll find out) I wanted to get a car right away but I had to wait for a month to chose the right one for me because it is my responsibility I needed to make a budget and to create a plan to get this car and maintain it. After I created a budget:

    • I look to see if I can keep up with the payments and find out how much is the payment.
    • car insurance how much am I going to be paying a month. Although the accident wasn't my fault my payment will change and I needed to find a cheaper insurance (I had to say thank you next to my old insurance)
    • I had to create a budget with my other personal stuff included to see if I can balance it all.

    You also have to make sure that you chose a car that is safe to drive on the road. Same apply to your life when you're making a decision look to see if it would make your life better, easier and will it make things safe for you. 

    we all have made decisions that we regret in the past but we have to move forward and learn from what went wrong. We are all imperfect so it makes sense that we make a mistake.



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