Rejection

Hey there beauties ! 

Today I’m going to talk about rejection. Feel free to get a glass of wine, some tea and get into a comfy position this might get ugly. I know pwe all can relate, I know at some point in time we all felt rejected or been rejected by someone. Well I’m here to tell you rejection is not so much of a bad thing. It shows that you had the gut to go for whatever that you wanted even if you didn’t get it, that’s a great mindset to have when you see something you want and you go for it. We are not chickens over here, we are go getters, we are hard workers and we fight for what we want. 

Now if it’s someone that you want to be with and that person says straight up “no I’m good or I’m not feeling the same way” it will hurt in the beginning because we are humans and I’m pretty sure we all have a heart and an ego. If the person is honest with you and tell you that they don’t feel the same way be glad ! It’s not to crush your ego, be happy because now you can focus your attention on someone else that would probably feel the same. 

Don’t take it personal, move on and if you need to take your distance from that person do it. Just take some time apart focus on yourself, go out with your girls and do some fun things. 

You are not going to always get what you want in life there are some things you have to let go no matter how hard it may seems at the moment but you have to let it go if it’s bringing you down. Let anything that’s dragging you down go. You are so much more than that rejection, don’t give up. Push forward you will thank yourself for moving on because you never know the right person might be right around the corner but you were too busy looking at the wrong one. Know your worth put a price on yourself and whatever that price is keep it and never lower it for anyone, never put it on layaway or on sale. That price that you set on yourself should always be the same not even a penny less. You will thank yourself in the future when you get married and start a family. If you put yourself on sale that means you will let just about anyone have you and that should never be the case. 

That person who rejected you had a price and they kept that price. Not that you can’t give them what they want well sometimes you just can’t and what you have to do is let them go because someone else might be able give them what you weren’t able to give. That’s okay because you don’t want to pursue something that’s too far out of your reach or so expensive that it cost you all your fortune. Just like you don’t want to be with someone that you give your all to and who’s only there to take and take from you without giving you anything. 

You both should be uplifting one another, help one another, be there for one another not tear apart, break one another or hurt one another. 

Back to rejection.

If you have been rejected in the past it does not mean that you will always be rejected even though it may feel that way the moment you feel rejected. It’s only a matter of time you get over it and start feeling like you again. All will come to past and the right person will come along. 

It’s good to wait even if it’s frustrating unless you want to drag a lot of wrong people along for the ride. 

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with that been said have a good day.

Love you all.