Signs you’re ready or not ready  to get married Christian edition 

First let’s start with the signs you’re not ready (based on my opinion by the way) 

• You don’t have a strong relationship with God, if you don’t have a good relationship with your creator how do you expect to date someone the right way? You will make mistakes and it may not work because the relationship will not be centered around God? If the other person is also a Christian they might not want to continue to date you because your priorities do not match theirs or you could cause the other person to fall! Also have a strong relationship with God will not only save your romantic relationship but it will make it last longer. If you are a man, how are you supposed to lead her if you’re not right with God?
• You can’t submit to a man, if you are a woman and you often struggle to submit to a man then marriage may not be for you if you cannot accept that the man is the head of the household. I get it, because I was once a feminist and it was hard for me to hear words like “you can’t, don’t__, you need to, you have to” coming from a man because those words used to trigger me but I had a reason because I went through something traumatic and I hated men for the longest time, so I couldn’t take any orders from any men that wasn’t my father (or a father figure because I grew up with my uncle who’s like a second father to me). I hated when a man would tell me what to do, that part of me is gone but it took me a long time to let go of the feeling that I need to be seen as equal to a man because truth is no woman is equal to a man and they will never be the sooner most woman accept that a good man can lead them is the better. As women we are emotional beings and a man is more hands on, more practical and he will be quicker to make a decision. Men are stronger than us, they are providers and we need to let them lead. I have no problem being submissive to my husband especially if he’s living a life that God will approve of. I will stand by him and support him
• Not financially stable. If you struggle to save money or you don’t have enough money then how can you take care of a family? You’re just asking for more problems and more stress. Get your finance in order first.
• Can’t afford an apartment or house, if you can’t do those things then where are you and your spouse going to live I hope you don’t plan to stay at the parents house!

Sign you are ready

• You are emotionally mature. Meaning you can communicate your needs well and you know what you want.
• You have a great relationship with God your life is not centered around material things but your mind is set on making God happy. 
• You have your priorities straight. You can handle your money, you have a good paying job, you have a car, you can afford a place to stay. 

Wait I have more but I have a headache I’ll write a part 2 later