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what I mean when I say I love physical touch 

Signs you’re ready to get married (part 2) Christian edition 

• You are not afraid of commitment and you know soon enough that the person you are dating is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
• You both have similar spiritual goals or at least you’re willing to support the other person and you want them to accomplish those spiritual goals 
• You are not afraid to talk about hard topics like finances, trauma, your spiritual habits whether bad or good, your mistakes, your failures. 
• You are transparent with your lover, you let them know everything that is going on and you always make them feel included in anything that you are doing. 
• You respect their boundaries and you understand them. You don’t try to change them or to make them act the way you want them to. You let them be themselves because that’s what you like about them.
• You have shared interest, you can talk about everything. you can hang out the whole day and still want to see them again as soon as you are apart from each other.
• You love how they look ( that’s important because love also has to do with physical attraction if you don’t find the person you’re dating attractive then how are you supposed to be in love ?) you can’t keep your hands off of them and I don’t mean that in a sexual way. It can be just simply as holding their hands, resting your hand on their waistline, kissing them on the forehead (that’s the most romantic kiss) 
• You can’t think of anyone else, you know they are the only one for you. Your eyes and your  thoughts don’t wander.
• You talk to them daily! You love their voice and how they communicate.
• You love their laughs, you can’t think about anything you hate about them! There are some things you might not like but they aren’t deal breakers. Nothing that are character flaws at least.
• You can afford the ring! If you can’t afford the ring well think about the wedding ! lol 

Weird thins I like in men 

• I like when they wear black collared shirts and black fitted pants 
• Has a cute nose
• Has a soft voice, big voice scares me.
• Does some things weird, example: he puts the milk before the cereal, or only wears certain clothing brand or certain colors I find stuff like that cute. Like the way I write all my Y backwards lol I can’t help it 
• Clean cuts, I hate messy hair in men
• When they wear rings and bracelets but manly bracelet 
• Has a pet, ugh you’re literally daddy 
• Cooks  ! That is so cute to me, like you can feed me wow!
• Drive with one hand and turn with one hand, ugh so manly 
• Does yard work ugh if he knew what he’s doing to me gosh 
• Wears an apron while  cooking ugh so hot
• Gets excited while talking about something they’re interested in 
• Read books ugh so freaking hot. Love that you stimulate your mind :)
• Work out, I love it because we can do it together and we can motivate each other

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Signs you’re ready or not ready  to get married Christian edition 

First let’s start with the signs you’re not ready (based on my opinion by the way) 

• You don’t have a strong relationship with God, if you don’t have a good relationship with your creator how do you expect to date someone the right way? You will make mistakes and it may not work because the relationship will not be centered around God? If the other person is also a Christian they might not want to continue to date you because your priorities do not match theirs or you could cause the other person to fall! Also have a strong relationship with God will not only save your romantic relationship but it will make it last longer. If you are a man, how are you supposed to lead her if you’re not right with God?
• You can’t submit to a man, if you are a woman and you often struggle to submit to a man then marriage may not be for you if you cannot accept that the man is the head of the household. I get it, because I was once a feminist and it was hard for me to hear words like “you can’t, don’t__, you need to, you have to” coming from a man because those words used to trigger me but I had a reason because I went through something traumatic and I hated men for the longest time, so I couldn’t take any orders from any men that wasn’t my father (or a father figure because I grew up with my uncle who’s like a second father to me). I hated when a man would tell me what to do, that part of me is gone but it took me a long time to let go of the feeling that I need to be seen as equal to a man because truth is no woman is equal to a man and they will never be the sooner most woman accept that a good man can lead them is the better. As women we are emotional beings and a man is more hands on, more practical and he will be quicker to make a decision. Men are stronger than us, they are providers and we need to let them lead. I have no problem being submissive to my husband especially if he’s living a life that God will approve of. I will stand by him and support him
• Not financially stable. If you struggle to save money or you don’t have enough money then how can you take care of a family? You’re just asking for more problems and more stress. Get your finance in order first.
• Can’t afford an apartment or house, if you can’t do those things then where are you and your spouse going to live I hope you don’t plan to stay at the parents house!

Sign you are ready

• You are emotionally mature. Meaning you can communicate your needs well and you know what you want.
• You have a great relationship with God your life is not centered around material things but your mind is set on making God happy. 
• You have your priorities straight. You can handle your money, you have a good paying job, you have a car, you can afford a place to stay. 

Wait I have more but I have a headache I’ll write a part 2 later