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A few things people think a nice or « good girl » like me won’t do.

• They probably think I’m stupid: when people see a nice person, someone who’s reserved or someone’s who is not in the midst of it all they think wow I can tell her anything and she will just go with it because she’s nice so she will do just what I tell her to do. They might also think that because you don’t talk too much you might not have anything intelligent to say so you probably don’t know much about life anyway.
• They think someone who’s nice is vulnerable or easily persuaded: I have had people tell me exactly what I need to do with my own life without asking me if that’s what I want to do but they took it upon themselves to tell me what I needed to do; and one thing I hate the most is someone controlling me or telling me what to do. I think I was more introverted 2 or 3 years ago and now I am more outspoken but apparently it’s not enough for some people.
• They think someone who’s nice will never clap back meaning you will not stand up for yourself. One thing about me I will let you run your mouth as long as you don’t touch me; I don’t care about what you gotta say about me if it’s behind my back. But I will always stand up for myself and I will use my words as a weapon which is why I stay quiet when I am mad because I know the damage that I can caused. Someone who is nice can be the most dangerous person you ever came in contact with so be careful.