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Headphone analogy.
I have three headphones and I will connect this with dating.
My first headphone is the ideal one (the ideal woman and the man’s first love) and I have had it for almost a year but it recently broke (the break up) I was devastated but I couldn’t dwell on it too much because life goes on (which is exactly how men think, they break with you today and in less than 1 year they have another girlfriend) so I went ahead and bought a second headphone it cos only 6$ at dollar tree because I needed something to get me through until I can get a quality headphone ( the rebound period) that cheap headphone is reliable but doesn’t hold much power compared to my first one honestly I don’t even care much about it. Eventually I got my third headphone this one is much better than the second one, it sounds better and the battery life is longer so I am happy that I find another quality headphone. Guess what I did ? I stopped using the cheap headphone ( a man didn’t use you to only leave you after, because you had no boundaries in place and you gave him everything so he kept taking. At the end of the day that was a mistake on your part.)
A man is always looking for a quality woman and their first love is never forgotten. They may fall in love again but in the meantime they might have a girl they have fun with until they find the one they’re really looking for. Don’t be my cheap headphone. Don’t be too available and easily accessible because that’s how you lose your value. Don’t let him play with you whenever he wants, you need to have boundaries. Now the only way for my second cheap headphone to keep its dignity is to stop working! Because I know I can’t use it when my third headphone is done or broken. To save your dignity you need to stop given in, stop giving your attention… move on and find someone better, someone who really sees you and who knows how valuable you are. A woman is always valuable! We hold a lot more power than we think.
Women tend to hold on to relationships that are dead because of our nurturing nature we think we can nurse anything back to life but truth is you need to start thinking like a man. If it’s not working just simply let it go. Time and time again I’ve seen my guy friends break up with a girl and move on to find another girl. The men will find some girl who’s younger than you, and ready to build. You need to leave ! Walk away. These men will take everything you’ve given them and give it to the next girl. As a woman you need to have standards, have your own money, your own saving because you came on this earth alone and you will leave alone without a man. My child will be the only human I will stick by no matter what. If a man betray me you’re out, you disrespect me in any way you’re out. It’s never too late to have standards ladies. Start today.
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