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2017-03-30T16:01:33+02:00

stuff you realize over time

Publié par Gaelle.R 30 Mars 2017 à 04:01 PM

When you wake up in the morning the first thing that comes to mind is the thing that you care about the most. If it's your dog or your cat well you care most about them. If you think about your boyfriend/ girlfriend most likely you went to bed thinking about him/ her and you probably dreamt about him/her too. Sometimes we act like we don't care but deep down we know we do and we always come back to what we say we were quitting. I am not thinking about anything in particularly but just saying …

I know some of you may have had a broken heart before because someone left, someone wasn't loyal. Let me tell you something don't ever feel like you don't have what it takes, don't think you don't have enough to offer because you are more than qualify. You will be more than enough for someone else. Don't be sorry because they couldn't see your worth. It's their lost that they left, wasn't loyal to you don't make that your lost. Don't ever let someone have a say in your future it's about you not about them. Why are you letting them controlling you. Me in particularly I hate being controlled because then I'm going to act out and it is not me. It's a way to say when you're being controlled most likely you're going to become a rebel it doesn't matter if you were a follower or a nice person. Being a rebel doesn't necessarily mean that you are being bad. I can be a rebel to you because I'm not doing what you want but really I am doing the right thing for me. Who cares about what whoever may want when your future is on the line?

Back to my topic I digressed like always lol but what I am saying is if someone left you while you were loyal to them and they weren't then karma will probably hit them in the future don't worry about it. Worry about what you're going to do to move on, flip that chapter. I know that you wished it didn't happened but it did and there's nothing you can do about it but move on and learn from it. There are some struggles you went through in your life it’s for you to learn from not necessarily to bring you down. Some struggles can be a real pain but you need to stay strong because one day they will be gone and all that's left is what you've took or learn from it.

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2017-03-28T04:18:15+02:00

Hi there

Publié par Gaelle.R 28 Mars 2017 à 04:18 AM

I have started so many articles that I didn't publish yet. True I am busy at the moment figuring stuff out. But that will never stop me from blogging...I guess I like it now it's not that I didn't like it before I think I used to just blog my pain away. Years ago when I started this blog the vibe was different and perhaps my English wasn't great it still not but I am proud of my accomplishment lol. It's not that long since I am speaking English...enough about me I hate to blog about myself I just want to be able to connect with all of you. I want to be able to tell you something you can benefit from. I know some writers already wrote what I said or what I am about to say but those words were never said by me and these words will never be said in that exact same way by anyone.

we are all different. We speak different, we think differently. We do everything in a different way and that's what makes us unique. We can't all be the same because it will just be boring. I love people who are totally different it fascinates me. some people will tell you that you are weird, you are never going to be normal. So what? why in the world would you want to be normal when you're this uniquely amazing bundle of joy? you should be proud of who you are but you should keep working on trying to become the image of the better person you have in mind. You should never stay where you are. You should keep fighting with your head high, you should never let someone bring you down...you need to keep moving because they are not going to stop for you.

One thing I learned and keep on learning each time I let my guard down is that you should never let yourself go with someone you just met, someone you just started talking to because you don't know them enough. The conversation may be interesting and you may sometimes feel like this person gets you but wait give it a few days...take a break see how they react if they don't notice the fallout then what's the point? we are desperately in search for someone that understand us I get that and I am in search of that but sometimes we may be wrong and that person may end up being a mismatch. It is better to realize something is wrong in the beginning it may hurt a little bit but it will hurt even more if you waited long enough to get attached to the person, It will be even more difficult to let go.

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2017-03-15T03:15:46+01:00

hello

Publié par Gaelle.R 15 Mars 2017 à 03:15 AM

It's been a while ... I have been busy and those snowstorms slowed me down a little bit. I am happy that I finally got to rest. Got to think, realized stuff and moved on from unnecessary things. I used to not know what's more important. I used to wonder and not know what I an wondering for. Today as I sit on my bed blogging this I just realized that people notice everything. I mean I already know that but I didn't realized that sometimes they do actually notice everything. From the way you walk, hold your breath, maintain your posture. I know they noticed all that because I noticed all that too. I can see when someone is uncomfortable, trying to impress someone. I can see all that but when it's you who's doing it you're hoping and almost believing that no one saw it but yes they did. Yep they saw you catch your breath, trying to clean that stain on your shirt by the fact they just choose to look away so you won't feel embarrassed but I know some people will not look away. And you're like Nah they didn't see me they just started looking but really they been watching you the whole time. It's kinda embarrassing to think about all the things that someone noticed about you.

People have seen me do some crazy things before lol like I didn't know they were watching. I remember when I was little I was not here I was in my Country and the house had a huge backyard I would go there and scream when I had a bad day lol and one day someone who was visiting the house was there and I thought I was alone so I screamed and as I was screaming I can see him looking at me like what the hell is wrong with you? I stopped and I started laughing hysterically!! He was confused because I came running from wherever I came from just to stand there and scream and now I am laughing. The person got a bit scared and told my mom I should probably get checked LOL OMG !!! She was like nah she does that a lot. The person just look at me and left. Oh well. Can't make a better first impression now...

I'm sure y'all talk to yourselves right? OH well I think It's self therapeutic and you should try it sometimes, When you feeling less powerful tell yourself what you want to hear. Sometimes you yourself bring you down and it's on you so you're the one who has to pick yourself back up.

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