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2023-10-31T19:52:10+01:00

does the place for the date matters?

Publié par Gaelle.R

I saw a video of a girl who wouldn't get out of the car because her date took her to cheesecake factory, but what shocked me more was the women in the comments!!

Should the place matters?

I will give you my opinion, I think the girl who made that video needs to remain single because she's more after the men's money than love. She could get a sugar daddy if she wants, I am not up for all of that but if you are dating for love then the place you go on a date shoulb be the least of your concern. If you want something serious you would focus more on how he treats you that rather than how much money he spent on you. A man can buy you anything in the world and still doesn't love you; he might be spending the money just to get some sugar meanwhile a man who makes effort by taking you out who from that lady's standard " is too cheap" is exactly what you need. Some men don't even bother to call you or make plans; that's why we throw them in the trash. The girl wasn't even that pretty to be doing all that... the man was so patient with her and so kind. I would have gladly gone out with someone like him, that girl needs a man to take care of her bills which is something different... that man is looking for love. 

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2023-10-31T02:31:13+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

Someone ask me what I did to grow my hair that fast? 

 

Last year my hair was really short but I’ve created a routine ever since that has been working for me. At first I tried braids to grow my hair but actually I am not sure if it worked lol because my hair was so dry after I take the braids out, and my hair shed a lot around that time. My hair doesn’t shed as much anymore since I have been trying to keep it healthy.

  • Find a routine that works for you! Everyone has their own routine and my routine may not even work for you or the next person but it worked for me because I stick to it. What happen When you work out a muscle a lot? It grows! Then it’s the exact same thing for my hair when I find something that works I stick to it. 
  • I deep condition my hair weekly, I let the conditionner marinate in my hair to the point that when I wash it out my hair is really soft.
  • After conditioning, I put my hair in mini twist during that process I use a leave in conditioner, a twisting cream and some essential oil or hair elixir. 
  • When I put my hair in mini twist I lock in the moisture and I retain length as well.

For natural growth you need to keep your hair moisturized, and always use water to moisturize you hair because that’s the best moisturizer that exist.

  • I don’t put heat in my hair; if you’re looking for a girl with straight hair you will not find that  over here. I will not change for anyone either, I don’t care what you think I should do with my hair because I love it the way it is. I will not change it for anyone, you will only find kinks and curls over here. 

One thing I do that I find therapeutic is scalp massages, it allows blood to flow in my follicles which promotes hair growth. I love my afro more and more each day! I take my time with it because I have a vision for it and I believe it will get there. I think my hair is beautiful the way it is which is why I wear it a lot more. It took me a while to get here but I am happy that I did. 

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2023-10-30T19:39:38+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

Monday!!!

10/30/2023

I don't know why I am excited because my baby will not win the ballon d'or this year :( but he will be there looking fly as ever!! I cannot wait to see him on the red carpet ;) Kylian is so beautiful! I cannot wait for the day he actually wins a ballon d'or :)

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2023-10-28T10:01:22+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R

 

“ don’t tell me to stop crying when you don’t know how long I’ve been holding back those tears; don’t tell me it will get better, I just want you to listen. I know things will get better but for now let me feel the pain.” 

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2023-10-28T09:33:21+02:00

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“ I think the biggest mistake anyone could ever make with me is to ignore me because once you do that someone will have to go in the underworld to find you for me to care about you again.”

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2023-10-28T02:42:14+02:00

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Women who let themselves go in a relationship. 

 

I am not here to bash women but I am here to empower both men and women but we have to talk about this…

I remember not too long ago I wrote that if I am too comfortable in my relationship I will break up with my partner and some people probably didn’t I understand what I meant; but clearly I did have a point. If I stop focusing on the right things as I did when I was single then something is definitely not right because I am supposed to keep growing and moving forward not going backwards. Some women come into a relationship looking so beautiful and fit only to let themselves go once they get a ring! Why not keep up with your outer beauty? Why did you stop dressing up? Why did you stop doing your hair? When you have a man it doesn’t mean that you have him forever you have to work to keep your man because things can change at any given moment. 

Now if you struggle with your mental health, I know it can be tough and I am not judging you but please take some time for yourself to self reflect and try therapy. 

When men says “she changed” once I married her they meant to say she stopped trying! She stop taking care of herself or she stopped caring for her man as she did in the beginning. When you get married it doesn’t give you a pass to start dressing like a grandma ! Stay the way you were when your man found you! That’s why he got with you in the first place! Have a self care routine and still take care of yourself!

 

Ladies you can still be the beautiful woman when you get married you don’t have to become the serious respectable woman. You can still be hot and fun! You don’t have to act all serious and important. Life is already hard as it is! Have fun! Live life enjoy your partner and keep taking care of yourself ;)

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2023-10-27T15:46:51+02:00

moving.

Publié par Gaelle.R

I have been wanting to move for a long time now, but it will be far away from where I currently live. I want to start my life over and meet new people and hey maybe I need to move so that I can meet my soulmate. I am planning for it because I want to stay far away from some people and when I move, I will change my number and everything about me... No one will be able to find me unless I let them. 

Enjoy my presence and my text messages now because one day you won't see me or get any form of communication from me. 

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