Publié depuis Eklablog

If you are in a relationship and you feel really comfortable but for some odd reasons you feel like you want to leave, then this is for you…

When we get into a relationship with someone, we start to mirror them and start speaking like them because you spend so much time together whether it’s by talking on the phone or hanging out together; that person becomes part of your day which is a beautiful thing. If for some reason you don’t feel like you are working towards your goals or leveling up with that person take a step back to assess the situation. Is that person holding you back? Not motivating you? Actually, it is not your partner’s job to motivate you but if they are bringing you down then that is not a good thing. You should feel elevated when you speak to them, you should feel loved and cared for. If I am in a relationship and although I love the person, I will break up with him if I feel like I am too comfortable. It’s good to be comfortable but don’t be too comfortable let me explain…

When you’re too comfortable ok let me take that example on me; if I am too comfortable in my relationship then I start to let myself go meaning I don’t take care of my mental health, my spiritual health or my physical health then there’s something wrong! Because I am settling thinking « oh I have him and he will not leave me » wrong!!! Because life can change at any given time and circumstances may not work in my favor, but I will need to be ready. When you are in relationship don’t forget to take care of yourself because you need to be whole before you can support or even help someone else. I want to be whole and the person I am with to be whole as well because if I’m not then I will be clingy and leaning on him for everything! I am very independent, and it would be hard for me to let myself go like that. The moment I start to feel insecure I know this is the wrong time for me to be with this person because I need to work on myself, and I can’t do that by being with him. Some people are not meant to be in your life forever, everyone who comes into your life is for a reason and sometimes you need to let them go to get to where you need to be.