This doesn't apply to men but to women, let me explain...
As a man it is your job to chase the woman you want, to provide for her and to take care of her. As a woman it is your job to be loving, kind, supportive, submissive (I will write something on this), and nurturing. It is not a woman's job to chase a man, provide for a man and to pursue a man! if you have to do that then that is not your man! because when a man loves a woman, he will do anything for her. If he's not doing the bare minimum which is chasing you then he is not the one. Let him go, never force anything; what is meant for you will flow.
