Publié depuis Eklablog

Controversial opinion and things about me.

Those are just what I think, you don’t have to agree.

1. Hair. A man telling me how to do my hair and what to do with my hair is very toxic let me explain as a black girl I don’t have straight hair. I have an Afro and it is time consuming as well as expensive to keep it beautiful and moisturized. Now what I choose to do with it should not lower or increase my value because hair is just hair. I am so much more than my hair; if a man decides not to approach me because I either have an Afro or a wig on my head then good. Stay away from me because that’s exactly that type of negativity I don’t want in my life. I never cared if a man would love my hairstyle, I do my hair the way that I want to do it. If your love for me relies on what my hair looks like I don’t want it because I could be bald tomorrow, then what? 
2. Hugs. I don’t like being touched unexpectedly it triggers my past traumas and I don’t have to explain what I went through but if I tell you “no I don’t want a hug” do not force yourself on me! I said no just respect my words. I am not playing hard to get I just don’t want a hug from you. There are a very few people I accept hugs from, and those people should feel very special because I trust them, and I feel good in their arms hence why I let it happen. Just don’t automatically hug me when you see me if I don’t initiate it or if I haven’t told you that I love getting hugs from you. 
3. Free spirit. I am in fact a free spirit, I may not come across as that because I look very quiet but don’t be fooled. I love to observe people and make my own conclusion about them. I am very stubborn, not many people can get through me. I will do exactly what I want to do and often times I learn the hard way. I don’t like being told what to do in an arrogant tone, just be nice about it and I’ll listen. 
4. Quiet. I hate it when people say “why are you so quiet” the truth is if I am quiet around you it’s because I don’t trust you or we are not friends. I am not quiet! I can be really annoying and goofy, I talk a lot and I am so sorry for those people I feel comfortable around because they always have to tell me to chill lol. I get excited around the people I love because I don’t get to hang out with them all the time so when I finally get to see them I get so excited! I love the people who gets excited with me those people are just like me they love to talk, they have a lot of energy and they are my close friends. I hate it when my friends tell me to shut up because truth is I am always ready to drop everything and cut off anyone who doesn’t appreciate me. My real friends love me for who I am and I will always love them.