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How to detach from someone. 

When I detach from someone that person no longer exist to me. Because I see myself as the main character in my story you can only exist if I want you there (I am a writer so it’s only fitting) I even forget the names or anything that they told me. When I have to detach to someone is usually when I realize their time in my life is done or I tested them multiple times and they failed constantly.  I know that it is no one’s job to make me happy or to give me what I want. It is my job to make myself happy and to give myself what I deserve.

If someone is not treating you well, you have to remind yourself that you have 2 choices: you can either stay and endure the treatment hoping that things will change one day or you can walk away and give yourself the love that you deserve while you wait for the right person to love you better. 

There is more to life than a relationship, you have to remember that the only way for you to find yourself is alone. No one is going to come and save you; you have to be strong and create the best environment for you to thrive. 

If someone doesn’t appreciate you or chose someone else over you then walk away, that person never deserve you. When you can’t be friends with someone or can’t have any type of relationship with someone it normally means that this person is not the one for you; which is okay because we were all made for someone or for a purpose. 

Keep working hard, travel the world, meet new people, open up your horizon, meet people from different countries and see how your life will change !