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There’s a video circulating online about a man talking about how he was dating a girl and side note the man who was making that video was fineeee but anyway aside from his beauty let’s get into it…

The man said: “ there’s this girl that I’ve been seeing and dating or whatever for a while now and she was coming over, I asked her if she could grab me some food because I was hungry but she said sure I can pick you up some food if you pay for it; because paying for food for a man is putting me in my masculine energy and I need to stay in my feminine energy.” Then the man proceed to say:” that’s my problem with woman y’all never want to to do anything for a man, I pay for everything when you’re with me because I find it in my heart to do it, I pay for your flight because it was in my heart to do it and I open all doors for you in all of our dates because I find it in my heart to do it. I didn’t have to but I did it because I’m a nice person ….” 

Now my opinion ?

I side with the girl but let me explain why, at the start of the video the man never gave the girl a tittle she was just “a girl he was talking to and casually dating” and he said they’ve been doing this for a while my thing is why is she not your girlfriend? She doesn’t have to spend money on you because you are not her man. As a man if you’re courting a woman you should pay for the date, what did you expect? For her to go half and half with you? You asked me out I could’ve stayed home, and order take out so you pay period…  I’m not going to be mean about it if you can’t pay ( I understand that because life is expensive but just know you didn’t have to bring me somewhere you had to pay, you could have just taken me on a walk)

That man was all up in her pants, but she was not in his heart. She doesn’t have to get you food because you don’t respect her enough for her to want to do anything for you. When a woman loves you and when you date her the right way, she will do anything for you! If my boyfriend asks me to bring him food, of course I’ll do it but if you’re just a friend I can say no because I don’t have to. But if you’re my man you won’t even need to ask lol baby, I know you’re hungry I’ll just bring you food just because. It looks like the girl knew where she stood, and she didn’t want to spend money on someone who was not claiming her.

I side with the girl! Because a woman owes you nothing just like you owe her nothing if you’re not willing to date her the right way, just leave her alone someone else will value her.