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Uhm? 

So I saw a video of a man with a baby and the man said” I want to send this video over to black tiktok I just adopted this black baby and I don’t know what to do with her hair I got some shea moisture but I don’t know what else to do.” He said this as he was brushing the baby’s hair with a brush and immediately I took a flight down to the comments because what? 

That video did not sit right with me because it was a white gay man who made that video after adopting a “black baby” he kept saying “black baby” which made me feel uncomfortable why can’t it just be a baby girl why couldn’t he said “ I am so excited to have my baby girl home but sadly I don’t know what to do with her hair.” Honestly the fact that he came to the internet with this concern made me feel like he’s looking for attention! It’s as if he was saying” hey look at me a white man with a black baby” the video was in poor taste and it made me questioned his true intentions! It made me ask myself  does he not have a black woman friend who can help him ? Why would you adopt a black baby if you didn’t know what it entails?! Did he adopt the baby for clicks and likes? Nowadays people will do anything for 5 minutes of fame and I am genuinely worried about that beautiful baby because when I look at the man’s page with the baby; all I see is the baby sitting in uncomfortable positions alone! As a newborn the baby requires a lot of support to breathe and if the child is placed in a chair they need to be seated properly ! And that is not what I saw! Someone needs to call CPS because I don’t think this will end well! If I did this as a black woman all over the internet I promise you CPS would already be at my door! Imagine me as a black woman saying” I got this white baby and I don’t know how to take care of it” ! Jail immediately!!