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Why are women leaving the church to go find a man outside? 

I talked about this in a recording; I started it by saying “I understand why some women do it but I don’t agree with it”. Yes, I understand that at a certain age, you want to start a family, you want to have a ring on your finger and when you look around all the men around you are either already married or dating a girl who’s miles from them! Like why do men do that? There are so many fine sisters at hand reach yet they rather date someone in another country so that it’s not awkward in case it doesn’t work out!

I am a Jehovah's Witness and I don’t want to date someone who doesn’t share the same religious beliefs and values as me because we would not agree on a lot of things and I would just be miserable. It’s either I forget about serving Jehovah and find a man on the outside ( which I will never do by the way because the men outside are way worse!) or I stay serving Jehovah and hope and pray he blesses me with my husband ( which I intend to do by the way) getting married is not at the top of my list but I do want to find love and I do want a beautiful family. 

I see a lot of women leave the embrace of God to only find a man who’s not even going to church regularly! Like no! I get that it gets lonely but there is more to life than a man. You can give Jehovah your all and believe me you will be happier this way, imagine leaving Jehovah for a man to only get cheated on!? In my case I don’t have a lot of choices there are more women than men serving Jehovah so my chances of finding a man near me are slim to none! All the fine brothers are already in a relationship with some girl far away or already married! while I am here Rotting lol no that was a joke! I only get finer with age ;) I realize that I need to move around and possibly travel a lot more to find my man because what if he’s in France? Which I hope he is because I love a French man! They are so respectful! So attentive and so in touch with their emotions… the fact that I already own 3 cats is not a problem for me but it could be for someone if they don’t like cats… I will never date a man who doesn’t like cats by the way. I understand that you might not like cats but you will love mine! If not then that is just a red flag lol because I will not give my babies away they are part of me. 

Truth is when someone loves you, they will love everything about you even if they tend to hate it on other people but on you, it will always look great. I know he will love the way I love animals and he will not make me feel bad for it… honestly, I don’t even see any available men near me and that is just sad! I need to move! Possibly go to another country.