Publié depuis Eklablog

A man is not attracted to his wife anymore because she gained weight after she had a baby.

my thoughts:  (you know I always have something to say)

Do I understand his reasoning? yes! because we all want to be with someone who looks good or at least someone who looks like they are taking care of themselves not that his wife is not taking care of herself because some things are beyond our control; but do I think the man has a valid reason for no longer being attracted to his wife or for not wanting to touch her?  NO because being that the woman is the mother of his child, he should not only respect her but also protect her and one way he can do that is by helping her a lot more with the baby so that she could have a little bit of time to work out and lose the baby weight. Having a baby takes a really huge toll on the woman's body, not only she has to heal after giving birth, but she will also have to find ways to lose all the baby weight. women can also struggle with postpartum depression which can take make her feel less motivated to lose all the weight or to even take care of herself. as a husband, you have to provide a lot of support wo your wife and help her with the baby because breastfeeding is not easy and if she had a c-section it will take a lot more time for her to heal. so, worrying about how she's no longer fit should be the least of your worries, men can be so hurtful because they don't understand how emotional a woman can be. As a man, please read books about women behaviors because I read of ton of books on men, and I still struggle to comprehend how careless some men  can be!

Having a baby is a blessing and both parents should be focusing on the wellbeing of the child; if the man was too busy taking care of the baby he would love his wife a lot more for giving him this beautiful gift. Men can be soooo superficial, all they want is a woman with a fat ass and beautiful face! what about what's in her brain? what about her qualities? her intellect?