Publié depuis Eklablog

There’s a series of videos going around on Tiktok and on YouTube title “who TF did I marry” I have not watched the whole thing but I saw people summarized it for me because I simply will not give a random stranger on the internet  8 hours of my day  only for them to tell me how mischievous a man can be, I already know that. 

This lady fell for a man who bought her a new tire on the first date simply because she got a flat tire and he showed up to help her?! I mean that happened to me lol and it was sooo embarrassing. I had a flat tire on the first date and he bought me an electric pump to put air in my tires which was really sweet but I don’t talk to that guy anymore why? Because although I appreciate what he did for me but that is not enough for me to fall in love! Besides acts of service is not my love language. The fact that she fell so quick for him showed that she hasn’t received acts of service at all or in a long time; as a woman it is totally normal for a man to want to help you after all we are in fact the weakest link. A man helping you doesn’t mean he loves you, he might’ve just done it out of the goodness of his heart and not because he is in love with you. unless a man flat out tells me “I am in love with you” I will not claim that man; that  is just a friend. 

The lady’s story is quite heartbreaking but the red flags were there! She was just blinded by one act of service that he did for her on the first date which is quite sad because this man was a true narcissist based on what I hear from her story! 

If you are dating or looking to date someone; don’t focus so much on what they are doing for you focus on the things they aren’t doing and the things they seemed to be manipulating you into doing… some people are not kind they just know how to fake it.