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Food for thought?

I used to be so offended and heartbroken when a guy didn’t want to be with me or if a guy didn’t choose me. Now I see it as a blessing, I imagine everything that God must be protecting me from and I am grateful because I don’t deserve it. A ton of women get into relationships and then get heartbroken or die because of that relationship later; I see it as I am no better than anyone else but God still chooses to protect me.

Perhaps if I got with the guy and married him maybe he would’ve been abusive towards me. Maybe he can’t have kids and God knows how much I want that. Maybe he would’ve cheated on me with another woman and then divorce me, maybe he will stop serving Jehovah and God knows I will never recover from that. Maybe he would’ve killed me because we won’t get along or maybe I would’ve killed him lol! Maybe he would not give me enough attention. Maybe I would be miserable, maybe the sex won’t be that great anyways… 

God can foresee the future and maybe he sees something that I won’t be able to

Recover from so that is his way of stopping all the bad things from happening. 

That’s why I never force relationships, friendships or anything like that. 

For the men who are acting like they don’t like cats and that’s why they don’t want to be with me! That is literally bullshit! When you love someone you will love everything about them, and you will accept anything that’s not harmful to the relationship. My pets are not the problem you are sir! I will not get rid of them to accommodate you, I would rather get rid of you than my pets. The things I accepted from the men I used to like was insane! Things that I would never accept in anyone else put I compromised because I loved them so miss me with that bullshit that my pets are the problem. Just leave me alone my husband will love them and he will play with them ;)