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My thoughts on adoption and surrogacy.

I have often talked about myself becoming a mother in the future, and I often say that I wouldn’t mind doing it alone if I don’t find a man. Originally I wanted to have my own child with my husband because I truly want my kid to have 2 parents but what if I don’t find the right one before I turn 32? I can’t wait that long and I want to have a baby by then. 

Surrogacy is the act of having a baby through another women’s body with your own eggs so basically you are renting a woman’s belly to have your own baby. That practice is out of the question for me because that is not how God created us to have children, when a woman carry a child they are bonded forever so that would be cruel of me if I were to come between them and just snatch that  baby away! Even if those were my eggs but I wasn’t the one carrying the baby. I don’t like that idea and I see it as prostitution! I’m sorry I just don’t find it normal. My second option would be to adopt a baby because I can’t have a baby out of wedlock ! I don’t want that for me at all. Which is why I have started to get my finances in order so that I have my baby by the time I’m 30 years old. I just can’t go through life without fulfilling my mothering nature. I love taking care of my cats which helps me to express the urge to be a mother. But I want to have my own human kid! My cats will always be my babies but I need my kind. 

I am very nurturing and I love to take care of the people I love. I think I was born to be a mom I really do ;)