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Predator teacher.

In the United States alone 10 %  of the students population will or have experienced educator sexual misconduct by the time they graduate high school and that survey was taken last year ! Which is huge. In 2022 there was about 349 public educators arrested for child related sex crimes. I want you to keep those numbers in mind as we debunk this topic.

When you send your child to school or to day care you have to worry about whether or not someone have acted inappropriate with your child. The world is full of monsters! When you have a kid you have to pay attention! Do not trust complete strangers with your child. The signs are clear when your child is being molested:

• They will start spending a lot of times alone.
• They might stop hanging out with their friends and start having an animal support toy or have imaginary friends as a way to comfort themselves. (I’m crying writing this!)
• They will become more quiet.
• They will be afraid of anyone’s touch or display of affection.
• They might become angry and misbehaved.
• They might become sad.

Children do not process emotions like grown ups do. When they are being abused often times they might think it is their fault and they might not even see it has a form of abuse  but as a grown up that’s where  you come in to protect the child and hold the predator accountable. Sadly we can’t shield our children from all the heartaches in  the world but I would advise any parent to have a close bound with their  child, start early on because in the teenage years they will become moody and anti social. 

My story.

When I was in kindergarten there was a teacher who was sooo close with the kids and I  can never forget this to this day! (Those are my earliest memories from my childhood )He would make the little girls sit on his lap and he would kiss them on the lips. Around that time I was going through some things at home and I knew this was wrong because of what I was already going through. I would tell some of the girls do not sit on his lap or do not let him kiss you! I was a kid protecting other kids! (You know I don’t think I ever acted like a kid, I was always far beyond my years)

One time he tried to kiss me and I told my mom. She was sooooo mad! She spoke with the principal and the teacher was fired. Some of the girls were mad but I remember telling them  some thing like “ don’t worry you are safe now” something like that…. But I knew that was wrong. As a kid I can’t comprehend what would make a man think a child is attractive in a sexual way! They are sick ! I know hell doesn’t exist but if they could burn I would not mind because of the things I went through! And still processing.

As a child you might not understand a lot of things but as you grow older and you start to realize what happened to you, that might make you angry! Depressed! Ashamed even though it was not your fault. Therapy can help, talking to someone you trust will help. Just be gentle with yourself and always try to love yourself a little more each day.