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Unhealthy attachments.

Recently  I posted a recording although it was in French but I remember saying something in the lines of « if he gives me too much attention I won’t like him, he has to ignore me for me to fall for him » well that’s actually not true. I revisited that theory and I thought that’s what I was attracted to but turns out that’s the way to hurt me. 

I don’t normally care about what people do or think of me because at this point in my life I got way too many bills to worry about whether or not a random person likes me. Ignoring me is not going to get you my heart and also giving me attention is not always going to give you my heart but just be yourself. Don’t try to play games with me, I can read between the lines and I can see you for who you are trust me. I am grown now and those games were for when I was in college. If you ignore me I’m just going to take it as a sign you don’t want me and I will  just find someone who does and I always do lol.