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How do you know you have found a good Christian significant other ?

It is hard to find a good mate even while serving Jehovah. Some people want to have fun, some people were serious at first only to change their mind later ,although that can happen even with a good mate if you weren’t prepared to date that person. But here’s a good mate … (that’s who I am trying to be for my future husband)

• Pure heart (Matthew 5:8) this person has pure intentions, they never want to hurt you or lie to you or put you in situation where they can take advantage of you. They want what’s best for you, and they are always there to support you. 
• Humble ( proverbs 22:4) this person is humble in all things. They won’t flex their wealth if they have it or use their beauty to their advantage. They are laid back, you’re the one who’s noticing all the great things about that person they are not telling you. They always redirect a compliment towards God because they know whatever they possess is because Jehovah gave it to them.
• Gentle ( 2 Timothy 2: 24) this person never fight with you or anyone. They won’t abuse you physically or emotionally.  They are kind, caring and always willing to help just about anyone not only you. They try to have self control in all things it may be with alcohol, food, money and entertainment or whatever it is they just know there is a time for everything and they don’t keep indulging in things that are fleeting. 
• Hard working (proverbs 12:24) this person works hard for everything they have and they are not afraid to work even harder for Jehovah. This is a good trait in a man because you want a man who works hard to take care of his family. As a woman it’s good that you work hard because you won’t be bored and start indulging in things that are bad also as proverbs 10:4 states “idle hands will cause poverty” trust me you don’t want to have money problems in your  marriage you both want to live a happy life ! With less stress as possible! Take vacations and enjoy each other.
• Strong (Ephesians 6:10) this person has a strong faith! You both need to be spiritually fed for the relationship to work. If you are lacking in faith which will happen at some point because we are not perfect make sure that you are with someone who’s faith can stand the test of time! As Ecclesiastes 4:10 states “For if one of them falls, the other can help his partner up” 
• Dependable (proverbs 20:6) this person is faithful and loyal to you! This is huge because you want someone who you can count on and someone you can lean on. But first be that person for them.