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Raise a man not a child.

I want a son someday, and I will do everything in my power to teach him how to treat a lady in a woman perspective. Man can raise good sons but without a mother figure in their lives they are bond to make mistakes. The same way a girl needs her dad to show her how a man should treat her is the same way a son needs her mom to show him  how a woman should be treated. 

There’s this case of this tiktoker named “jinkid” on social media I believe his real name is “Ali” but anyway this guy was so abusive to his wife that at some point the wife kicked him out in the home and was in the process of divorcing him. One day he came in the house with a key that he never returned when he was leaving, he didn’t see his wife Ana so he called her ask her why she’s not home and if she’s out cheating on him. He then proceeded to trash the apartment and install a listening app on his daughter’s iPad and left it behind Ana’s bed so that he could hear everything. Keep in mind they are no longer together! She is moving on without him but I must tell you he met Ana while he was in the military, he was stationed in Japan and that’s where he met her. Then he brought her to the US but he was discharged from the army for misconduct. He used to do a lot of drugs and he was not afraid to use them out in public. He was abusive, toxic and entitled. One day Ana was home with a guy friend she invited over then he came in with a gun and shot them both! Then proceeded to call his mother to tell her what happened and sent her pictures of the gruesome scene! He then drove to his daughter’s school and picked her up while having a loaded gun in the car. He told his daughter how he killed her mom but thankfully he was stopped on the highway and was arrested! My thing why didn’t the mother also call the police and give them the pictures! Why did she trust that her son called the police! He could be lying. Her granddaughter was also in danger because he went and picked his daughter up at school, why did the mother let him pick up his daughter !? I would have called the school and tell them not to let my son picked up my granddaughter and tell them he has a gun so they should be on high alert. His mother was trying to hide him with his daughter! How can she be that heartless! A woman just died and lying on her pool of blood because her son chose to take her life.

He is currently on trial for double homicide and his mother came in to testify. As a mother if my son did this he will no longer be my son because if after everything I taught him and gave him Jehovah’s word on how other people should be treated didn’t get through his skull then there’s nothing to be done. But she came in with a defensive attitude ! She is still trying to protect her son! Even after listening to a recording of her own son threatening Ana she still didn’t believe that her son was abusing his wife! Like what kind of mother are you? Why shield your child from all the potential consequences? They need to know what the real world is made of, if you do something bad then be ready to suffer the consequences!

They asked the mother “ were you aware that your son hit his wife “ she said “she hit him too” gosh! What in the world!? A woman hitting a man is not the same as a man hitting a woman, they’re both wrong don’t get me wrong but a man is stronger than a woman so there’s more damage that his punches could caused! Please teach your son to never hit a woman! 

•  if you’re dating someone or going on a date with someone and that person is acting suspicious always do a background check first , you can do it on truthfinder.com this site will tell you everything you need to know. A simple background check can save your life. You never know who you are surrounded by so please stay on guard especially you ladies .