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Believe all woman ?

There’s this saying going online with people insisting that we should believe all women when they come forward and accuse someone of abusing them in any sort of way. But we all saw what happened at the trial for defamation between Amber heard and Johnny Depp which showed Amber was the abuser, I am not saying Johnny was a saint but I don’t think he was abusing Amber physically to the extinct that she claimed if at all.

With all of those allegations against big names in Hollywood more and more women are coming forward to say what happened to them and some of them are looking for a big payday, some of those women only has one picture with the person to show that they really know this person and then they claimed that person abused them. I am not going to believe anyone right off the bat without proof! I need some sort of proof to show me that what you’re saying really happened. For Cassie we all saw that video that CNN released so what more proof do you need? Right and for Jonathan majors we saw the text messages between him and his girlfriend, we saw videos and pictures of what happened. When a woman just film a tiktok video claiming that someone abused them it doesn’t mean anything if they don’t show any proof! That person can sue them for defamation if they don’t have any proof. So my thing is for anyone who wants to file a police report or come forward with any confession about how someone took advantage of them or abused them that person needs solid evidence. They can’t arrest anyone without proof of wrongdoings. I am not in the practice of believing all women. Sure we are in fact the weakest link but some of us are very manipulative. 

In some instance some women do not have any proof and maybe the abuse happened a long time ago and when they come forward they don’t have any proof, that does not mean that they are lying but just know that you might not be reimbursed or get any Justice because of what was done to you. The only option might be to discuss this with a trusted friend or seek therapy and move on with your life. But if you are making tiktok videos all day about that abuse hoping to get any sort of support or Justice that may not happened if you don’t have any proof. I do believe that the more you speak about all the bad things that happened to you in the past the more you are keeping the bad memories alive and the more you are holding yourself back from a happier life. Move on love.