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Mean girls.

I’ve had my fair share with mean girls especially when I was younger and they would preyed on me and used me because I was just so nice. Eventually I grew thick skin and now I can spot them from miles away. For starters I always have one great friend I trust and that friend has great qualities! If you’re my friend just know you’re an amazing person and I love you dearly even if we don’t speak I always think about you and pray for you.

There are 2 types of mean girl:

• there’s one that will be nice to your face and then plot your downfall. This girl will turn your friends against you, and steal your man( but then again if anyone is able to take your man then good riddance you’ll be better without him). She will Take anything you like before you have a chance to get it and she will never share with you but then pretend she is doing everything for your own good. You will be blinded at first because she appears to be really nice but she’s not but instead she is envious of you.
• There’s one that will be mean to your face and be nice to everyone else you know, when you try to tell someone how mean she is they will not believe you because according to them she is “so nice”. Then for some reason you will be gaslit into believing you’re the problem when in reality she is just mean!

I know both types and I steer clear from those girls because those are not the type of girls to have great friendship with. I am really genuine and even if I don’t like you, I will not be rude to you if anything you might not know I don’t like you because I will always treat you with respect but you will definitely know that I don’t want to be friends. I will not initiate plans and I will never hang out with you willingly unless you happen  to be out at the same time I am out with other people. I can spot genuine people like me and I can sense whether or not they have an ulterior motive.

I almost forgot!

• There’s the Jlo type if you’re on social media then you must know how everyone is finding how mean Jennifer Lopez is! Those girls like her are always in competition with pretty girls and they feel threaten if a girl is more attractive or more talented at something than them. For some reason those girls are extremely nice to men! If you’re a guy she will have no problem being nice to you! If you’re her friends she will somewhat be nice but not unless it benefits her! Those girls are obsessed with men’s approval and they really don’t like being friends with girls.