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Dating tips #1

This is the number one rule in the book for anyone especially for girls since I am a girl and I am more familiar with us. 

If you’re dating a guy and he’s telling you “ I don’t normally go for girls with short hair but you look amazing with yours” run! Let me explain. He will start with your physical appearance first, he might say “ i wish you were taller but you’re cute” girl listen he will start there first and then he will start taking jab at your personality I’ve had a man who I wanted to date tells me “all my exes were more outgoing than you” when he said that I knew it wouldn’t work because what do you mean by that?! You knew I was introverted when you met me even if at times I do show signs of extroversion but you knew what I like to do for fun. It was my mistakes because I always pick guys who are more extroverted than me only because I love their fun sides and I can’t stand pure introverts they’re boring ugh! but sometimes it might be hard for me to keep up with the extroverted people if they want to make plans everyday because baby I need a break, you can’t be in my face everyday. Anyways back to the story, although I really liked the guy but I knew it was my cue to go because being part introverted is my personality ! So I told him let’s not continue, he was shocked because he knew I liked him and he told me he liked me too. You know why I did that? It’s because men are delusional just like us girls but in a more superficial way they believe they will find the girl of their dreams with all the physical appearance they want in a girl one day,  and if he keeps pointing out things about you that you cannot change then you’re  not his dream girl! Which is fine because when you’re someone’s dream girl he will not want to change anything about you even if he had the chance to do it because he will loves you just the way you are. If he had to pick you again he will do it again and again. When you’re not his dream girl, he will walk around still hoping to find what he’s looking for. Save your tears and just walk away baby girl. You will find love someday but this guy who has a problem with your style, looks or personality is not it.