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Don’t be delusional.

One of the best thing you can do for yourself is to stop being delusional in your dating life. I never limit myself in any other aspect of my life meaning I could be broke today and totally expect myself to be flying first class tomorrow, I am not opposed to that idea. But in my dating life I restrain myself a lot, let me tell you why.

My beliefs may shock you but I believe no one was made for you, the same way you found love yesterday and it went away is the same way you can find another love next month. People are made because God wanted to create them, I don’t believe anyone was made for me. I believe I can find love multiple times in a lifetime with different people( I may not always say this especially when I write poetry but aside from being a poet I am very realistic). My first rule is to  Never get too attached to anyone! While dating that person may be telling you how much he loves you today but next month he might be breaking up with you and  on his way to date someone else. Always expect someone’s departure because that’s life. No one is yours! Humans aren’t property we are free to choose who we want and where we want to be. I am with you today because I want to be here but tomorrow I can change my mind and you can change your mind too. Nothing was made to last forever, we live and then we die. Sure we were originally made to live forever but sadly the first humans ever created mess that up for the rest of us so we are stuck in this repeating cycle where we are born and then we die.

I am never too attached to any man, where I may be attached to my girl friends never any man! My mom made me that way. I never saw her with any man, she was with my dad today and when he leaves it was only the two of us she never seek attention from anyone else. She raised me to feel complete in my solitude. She taught me a lot and I will forever be grateful. If I  don’t find a good man I will totally be fine but I know I want to be a mother! I will make that happen trust me. I am an hopeless romantic but at the same it is so easy for me to detach. I am not made for any man, and no man was made for me. I was made to serve my purpose not to only be someone’s  lover and that’s how I see it.