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Some red flags in men I look for ( if you do these things, you definitely don’t have a chance with me)

• Still talk to his ex. I’m sorry am I not all you need? Why are you friends with your ex !? Drop her already! Especially if you know she’s still in love with you. At this point you’re just playing in my face. Instant drop.
• Not an affectionate guy. Believe it or not my love language is also physical touch even if I look stand off ish but besides words of affirmation my next big one is physical touch, if I like you I will be all up on you and even under your clothes lol I just need your body next to me.
• Don’t be too serious. If we can’t joke around, play (if you don’t play video games I’ll teach you), laugh and be  kids in love then I don’t want it because baby I’m here for a good time. Don’t be boring that’s why I love extroverts they’re fun! They get me out of the house and they make me happy.
• Also chill not just go go go. We gotta have some balance if you’re always on go mode it won’t work because we need a day where we can just chill and watch a movie with popcorn.
• Hates cats. Well that won’t work I have 2 cats! And I will always have cats in the house so if you have a problem with that then we can ho ahead and end it right now.
• Doesn’t know how to dress. Ugh! This one is tricky because I can just help him with that but if he doesn’t want me to help then no, I just simply can’t walk around with a man who looks a mess. 
• Doesn’t work out. I am a gym girlie now and I need a gym partner, if you hate working out it might not work for me.
• Doesn’t like different types of music. If you only listen to drill sounds or one type of music, then no! We need to vibe and I’m always playing some type of music if that bothers you then I don’t know.
• Not romantic! Honey I want to be spoiled. I want flowers, a gift just because, kisses, hugs, touch, crumble cookie delivered to me when I’m sad ! Lol 
• Can’t plan a date. The last date I went on I had to plan it because the guy didn’t know where to go but granted, he’s not from my town so I let that slide but the next date the person has to plan it! You’re the man! Lead me. 
• You’re too friendly. I like my man to be unapproachable, I don’t like a man who’s in every girl’s face. Has all the girl’s phone number like it’s weird. Have standard stop talking to every girl, that’s turns me off because I just don’t feel special because you talk to every girl 
• Indecisive. I can be a bit indecisive especially when I am picking out shoes but if you’re just indecisive in a lot of things then that’s annoying!
• Sassy. If you keep talking back and being rude then no.  Stay away from me.