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Take a page in my book when dating your man:

•  I am a different breed, I am fine without a man. I want a man for different reasons but I am fine without him. 

These are the things that are none of your business. While you’re dating him focus on you, keep living your life as if nothing has changed yes you love him but don’t be obsessed with him. Have your own life, your own hobbies, your own interest, your own friends.  Don’t be a puppy following him around everywhere he goes that’s embarrassing. Be a strong woman next to your man. 

1. Be self centered; there’s a difference between selfish and self centered. When you’re self centered you’re willing to focus on you and to better yourself. You’re willing to put yourself first if the relationship becomes toxic. There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who knows her worth. Keep your same dream and aspirations don’t change your mind because you start dating, keep your goals ! That’s attractive it shows how motivated and driven you are. 
2. What’s none of your business are: his Instagram followers, the pages that he follows and the pictures that he likes. If he’s looking at someone while you’re out with him that’s  none of your business focus on you, don’t keep a blind eye because believe a man when he says something and watch his actions to know where you stand. Men can tell when you’re worried about his every move and that makes him feel like he’s on a pedestal and you have to stop doing that. When he’s focus on someone else, focus on you let him be. When he sees dang! Look at her she doesn’t even go crazy let me see what’s up. 
3. Stop trying to figure out where he’s at, why he’s not coming home. Pull back it’s none of your business remember you can’t force a man into loving you or into giving you all the attention you need. He needs to realize it not you. 
4. Let him chase you. If he’s not chasing me he will not hear from me, I don’t care how much I care about him, if he doesn’t care to find out how I’m doing then he’s not worth it.  I’m amazing if you want me then find me. I don’t have to beg for anything, if he doesn’t chase me and doesn’t reach out then he was never mine in the first place. It’s alright because it’s not a big of a loss. What’s meant to be for me will never miss me.