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Love or money?

Recently I met a guy well actually he found me because I sure was not looking. He has been really polite, very understanding but one thing is off! He has no charisma.

He leads with the fact that he makes a lot of money, sure if I was looking for a rich man, he will be the first one I would keep my eyes on. Telling me things like “I make 6 figures” while I am not physically attracted to you means nothing to me. All that money I can’t stand to look at you ugh. I would rather live in a small cottage with the man I love than in a mansion with a man I do not love. I want to be happy not rich, if happiness comes with a rich guy, then hey but that’s not what I want. 

People forget that physical attraction is just as important as emotional attraction. Sure, you may fall in love with someone’s mind, their qualities but what if you don’t like the way they look or the way they dress. I mean I can fix the way you dress that’s not a problem but there are some physical attributes that I cannot  alter or change and I will leave you the way you are and someone else will love you for who you are (it won’t be me though) I don’t like wasting peoples time 1 day talking to you is enough to get me an idea if I will ever be able to fall for you. 

He prides himself as being a great conversationalist, but I am not looking for a great speaker I need someone who makes me weak with just one look. The dating scene is insane not that I am looking but some people are really bold and I am shocked.