dating

Dating me can be challenging if you don't listen to what I am saying in the beginning. I normally tell anyone I am talking to what I don't like and what I like so that it doesn't come as a shock when I inflict my boundaries. I have a lot of boundaries and I am very strict when it comes to all of them. Your ability to listen to me will be what determine whether or not you make it to the final stage. So far no one has been qualify, I am very strict in love I don't give my love away too fast or to anyone I don't deem deserving of it.

My time is extremely important to me and I hate it when it's being wasted. I am very observant I can tell when you're annoyed, angry, hiding something from me, not being truthful, uncomfortable. I pick up on cues, I may not tell you my findings but trust me I know. I don't let my heart guide my decision, I can love someone and still walk away if they're not what I am looking for. 

• When my time is being wasted I get soooo angry, every hours of my day is planned out so when I fit you into my schedule whether it's by going on a date with you, doing something for you, I am on the phone with you or we're doing something together that I normally wouldn't be doing if it wasn't for you ... that's me giving you my time so when you waste it I will cut you off no question ask.
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• Don't play with my emotions, if I tell you something hurts me or bothers me don't brush it off or tell me I am overacting I will cut you off and never tell you anything ecee again. 

respect my boundaries when I say NO it means NO. Don't push me to change my mind because I won't. Please respect my decisions.

I am affectionate but on my terms. If I am overstimulated please give me space don't try to kiss my neck or rub on me because I will be mean. I will tell you hey please stop I need some space. 

When I am going through something I will take  a step back not because I don't trust you but because I don't know how to lean on people when times are rough. I normally isolate and concentrate on solving my problem. I don't like to talk about it until it's done. Don't push me to talk about it, I will come to you when I am ready.

I have other things but they're more complex and the person I am talking to will know. whether they listen or not is on them, if they don't I will cut them off.