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Everything can and will go wrong but the gym will always do me right.
2024-10-12T01:54:56+02:00
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2024-10-11T20:30:24+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
il n’y a aucun problème! Donc parce qu’il est footballeur pro il n’a pas le droit de prendre une pause ou de vivre paisiblement ? Moi si je l’avais vu dans la rue comme ça avec sa famille je ne l’aurais pas pris en photo pour ensuite faire une buzz avec. Clairement il y a quelque chose qui ne va pas, d’habitude il se fait toujours appeler pour les rassemblements avec les bleus! Les gens sont si bêtes parfois ça m’agace.
2024-10-11T14:28:08+02:00
if you are a work in progress but still get triggered this is for you.
- it's okay if you cry about something you thought you healed from, old memories may linger, and past traumas may reappear when we least expect it. let it out, just cry your little heart out and do not feel ashamed or that all your hard work was for nothing; always remember that you are a work in progress.
- after a depressive episode, please get cute and do self-care; take care of yourself but do not spend too much money. Self-care can be simple; it can just be you taking a nap after not sleeping for a while. Always shower no matter how unmotivated you are, get your hair done, get your nails done and watch funny movies.
- distance yourself from people who do not value you: that includes people who talk behind your back, people who doesn't text you bak or call you, people who never ask how you are, people who does not care about you baby LET THEM GO! they are doing more harm than good; they are holding up space that you could fill up with amazing people and fun activities.
- do not take everything personal, life doesn't have to be serious all the time. Let loose, have fun and joke as much as you can
2024-10-10T05:04:08+02:00
2024-10-09T18:44:56+02:00
Le tabou des cheveux crépus
Je ne comprends toujours pas pourquoi les filles avec des cheveux crépus ne se sentent pas belle avec leurs cheveux! Elles veules toujours porter des cheveux qui ne leurs appartiennent pas! et moi je veux leurs dire toutes qu’elles sont très belles telle qu’elles sont ! Moi j’ai été parmis ces genre de filles il n’y a pas très longtemps et je leurs comprends ! Parce qu’ il ma pris beaucoup de temps pour finir par tomber amoureuse de mon Afro et de mes boucles. Je sais que ce n’est pas si simple que ça! Et je sais qu’entant que fille je pense toujours a me faire belle et à m’embellir de belle choses mais enfin il faut qu’on commence à reconnaître la beauté que Dieux nous a donner!
2024-10-09T01:14:50+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Dating someone with depression is hard!
I was talking to this guy for a while and he was dealing with crippling depression, he wasn’t seeing a therapist even though I encouraged him to go but he never did.
I am a normal person and dealing with all of his emotions was very draining and I don’t wish that on anyone. At first I was willing to listen because I was also dealing with depression and I thought I was equipped to help him but boy was I wrong! Our emotions were not the same! And he made me feel even worse at times I would hang up the phone just to cry because I felt what he was telling me to my core. I couldn’t deal with his situation even though I wanted the best for him, I wanted him to be happy and I wanted to really start something serious with him but I realized I couldn’t help him ! And I wasn’t attracted to his sadness at all!
I would still check on him here and there but I couldn’t be a part of his life. I needed to be there for myself first before I can even be there for someone. I don’t mind if my man is sad once in a while but you’re sad everyday!? Uhm no! Because when I’m happy I have to bring down my emotions because of you. I love happy people because that’s what I aspire to be! When I am dating someone I would want for that person to be happy and bubbly, not too extroverted but enough to get me out of the house.
2024-10-08T22:35:59+02:00
high standard ?
wanting loyalty, respect and love in a relationship is not too much to ask for! it is just the bare minimum! I don't think any of us should date someone if you don't think that person would be faithful to you, granted no one knows what the future hold and we can't foresee anyone cheating but if we get the slightest hint that this person might then we shouldn't engage in anything serious unless you're gearing up for a heartbreak.
2024-10-07T01:59:06+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Men playing with kids or being affectionate to a kid does something to my ovaries !
2024-10-06T16:26:06+02:00
2024-10-06T04:02:21+02:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Woah!
Apparently I was totally wrong about the situation of Lucas coly, of course I know something was wrong with him mentally but him being a narcissist was not what I was thinking about. I am not shocked because I stopped watching him and Amber a long time ago but I didn’t know how bad it got since I stopped watching their videos.
From what Amber is saying Lucas was extremely abusive and he wouldn’t let her leave. She has been running away from him and she even went to 5 different states because he threatened to take both of them out! I mean how toxic is that?! when he killed himself he was on the phone with her; she was hysterical! She called her mom and called 911 she said he did that out of spite to ruin her life because he knew how much he meant to her like what!? That’s insane. I don’t want that type of love. If he’s that obsessed with me I’m leaving because that’s toxic and that’s not love. When you love someone you wouldn’t want to do anything to hurt them! If it means leaving them alone in order for them to be happy because you love that person. You have to realize when to let go baby! Ugh I hope that she can heal and move on because she’s been through a lot. I don’t want a pretty boy! The pretty ones are way too toxic for me. I can’t deal with all that, my attitude wouldn’t let it get that far anyway.