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2025-01-14T05:21:19+01:00
Luteal phase
currently I am in that phase which is a little bit before a woman’s period. She’s very irritable, depressed, low energy… increased or decreased appetite. I hate this phase because all I want to do is be alone and at peace. My workout isn’t as intense because I need more time to recover in between sets. The most important is that I am moving my body, I feel meh some months are worse than others
2025-01-13T22:32:07+01:00
As women I think all women should all have this energy meaning you should not be focusing on any man who's doing nothing but wasting your time, you should also not be seeking validation from anyone. Most women don't have that energy because they grew up a different way, I grew up with a very beautiful, independent and hardworking single mother. You should know your power and if you don't know what that is then get started, get to know yourself before you get into a relationship. You can't be giving away something you know nothing about! why are you looking for a man if you don't know who you are? first of all why are you even looking for a man? If a man wants you, trust me he will find you; you don’t have to go chase him to your corner he will come on his own.
Have you ever watched the discovery channel, when a cheetah is haunting for a prey? They scoop the scenery out and they pick one prey they know that they should be able to catch, they watch the prey, they follow the prey and then bam they pounce on it! That’s how a man hunts! A bit graphic but don’t worry he will be gentle. He will watch how you talk, dress and get to know as much as he can from afar to see if you’re the right one for him. If he doesn’t come for you then he either didn’t like what he saw or he knows you’re not the right one for him; and it’s okay because that’s a blessing. As a black cat you should never go after someone who doesn’t love or value you, you need to walk away and find better. He doesn’t call you? Then someone else will call you, he doesn’t take you out then let someone else take you out.
Just like the men are entitled to chase women, as a woman you are entitled to prioritize yourself.
black cat energy features:
Having black cat energy is not about making men suffer but it's about prioritizing yourself and having self-respect.
rule number one: never get too attached to the point where you don't know when to walk away, always be ready to say goodbye because nothing is promised.
He is not yours forever and unless he puts a ring on it, he cannot stick it in.
Have your fun but never let him have too much power over you, be ready to take your attention and affection back when it's not being reciprocated.
Maybe that's why I am single because I never let any man play with me, I will quickly block you and act like you never existed. I barely give men any time of my day! I would give someone attention for a bit then stop because I'm over it... but just: DO NOT PLAY WITH ME!
have options: if you are not in a relationship then you aren't tied to anyone. You can talk to anyone you want and flirt back but once you get in a relationship all of that has to stop. Save it for your man. Never stay loyal to a man who doesn't ask you to be his girlfriend if he's allowed to date whoever he wants then so can you.
here's a playlist below to ignite that black cat energy:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/33YTbbajOorh4WJN6TYkGu?si=8sTBBAZ5SPiu8_SfYn7TrQ&pi=u-uKwI-mNXSSuS
2025-01-13T05:06:46+01:00
2025-01-13T02:54:39+01:00
Today’s final Spanish cup game between Real Madrid and Barcelona was a disaster !
Real Madrid lost 2-5 and I was shocked! I was sad when I saw how bad we were losing right off the bat in the first half! Mbappé scored a goal in 5 minutes but after that everything went down hill. Today Mbappé played well but Real Madrid didn’t and I am not saying that because I love him, there were games where the team played well and he didn’t. But today he gave it all on the field but he was alone! Jude came to help but vini didn’t make much a difference! Not even when Barcelona was 1 man down after receiving that red card! It was 11 against 10 and that didn’t make a difference. Barcelona already won in the first half the only person that was keeping the hope alive was Mbappé! He kept trying even when he got an injury he wanted to keep playing! That’s why I love him. He’s such a fighter! He’s so competitive and he hates to lose just like me. If I know I have a chance to win at something I will fight until I get it I will never give up! Even when everyone else gave up I won’t and that’s what Mbappé did today. He is an exceptional player and today he showed it, I will always love and support my baby. It’s okay I know he’s crying and sad right now but we’ll get them next year oh wait next year is the World Cup yayyyy even better let’s go win that World Cup baby.
2025-01-12T02:27:20+01:00
2025-01-11T21:54:20+01:00
Saturday
Meh…
I love Saturday’s but today I feel like ish, I feel so sluggish and my workout wasn’t as productive as I would’ve liked it. For a beginner it would still be intense but for me it felt like nothing. I just want to lay in bed, I feel kinda sad to be honest. I’ve been trying to cheer myself up on TikTok but I’m just not feeling upbeat at all.
We all have those days… I’ll just take it easy and rest.
2025-01-10T19:17:24+01:00
one thing I realize in dating is that I am a bit agressive lol but not in a bad way. It's quite charming if you like me and you don't mind a woman who takes charge but at the same time I will fall back in let you lead. But it's not good if you don't like me, you will hate it.
I am like this because I am over it! ugh I hate the process like lets get all the talk out the way like do you want me or nah? do you see yourself getting mareried to me? no okay that's cool let's stop talking.
2025-01-08T04:29:15+01:00
This week has been so busy in the gym, there is a lot of people. I understand that it’s a new year and most people have new year resolutions and they want to start going in the gym in January. I am not mad at it! But everyone just wants to go at 5-6pm like what? Can you go earlier than that? I love to see people work out and pushing themselves but one thing for sure I am glad that I didn’t start going to the gym in January because I would’ve been scared. I never liked working out when there is a lot of people around because I felt so self conscious. I am so glad that I joined the gym a random day in may because there was no one there! I could make mistakes and not feel ashamed about it.
Currently I don’t mind if there is a lot of people as long as I get the machines I want to use then I don’t care. I just need a corner and 2 heavy dumbbells on Mondays, and the smith machine on Wednesdays and Saturday’s after that everyone can do whatever.
My leg muscles are sore at the moment from yesterday’s workout, I’ve done foam rolling on my muscles today and I feel a little better. I normally train my legs like a beast and I just want to do the same for my upper body, but baby steps I will not rush it.
2025-01-04T23:24:00+01:00
I figured it out!
Men annoy me! I cannot be on the phone with you everyday, I feel suffocated. Now I know why I am single, I just don’t reach out and I get bored quick . Asking me a picture every day annoys me. Leave me alone dude! I think I’m too self sufficient, it’s very rare that I want something from a man. I hate it when men touch me ugh I don’t even like hugs from just anyone.
Ugh…
2025-01-04T03:29:22+01:00
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