being wrong.

Hey there,

Although I have a mild headache but I still decide to blog because I've had had this idea for the last 4 hours and I was like I can't wait to get home on my laptop and share this with you. Even though I got home eat, watch TV for a while and browse on social media but here I am.

so... being wrong uh? to be honest that's not the right tittle "being wrong" is not my point it's part of it. I am here to talk about forgiveness and saying sorry. We've all been wrong and said some things that may have hurt someone we love and care about. I personally have and perhaps it was unintentional because I would never plan to hurt someone that I love. I wish I could go back and take what I said back but I can't. I made a mistake and I won't let that be the end. What I should and must do next is go over there and sincerely apologize and hear what the person has to say to understand the hurt and the pain that they feel. we are humans and we are prone to make mistakes but what we need to do is own up to them. even though you don't know how you've hurt someone because you simply can't see what you did wrong but understand that it is not your place nor up to you to decide if the person should be hurt or not. you are not inside their head or in their feeling to know how they feel. sometimes one simple thing that you say can hurt someone. sometimes you may not speak just your body expression or because you ignore someone can hurt them. The human mind is complicated and trying to figure that out when someone is hurting is wrong. Instead of fighting to prove that you are right you actually making it worse. A loving friend don't care about who's wrong or right they care about maintaining the relationship and about being on good terms. I see great relationship get ruin because none of the people involved wanted to apologize so they would rather move on instead of making up and apologize. It takes a lot of pride to admit that you are wrong and I know that it is not easy but we have to put our pride away if we want great relationship. when you are in a relationship with someone you will fight with them, disagree but at the end of the day what you have with them is greater so you work it out with them because you realize how much you need that person and how much you love that person that you cannot live without them. Love is about forgiving, accepting, realizing, apologizing and simply love them because you just do and there's nothing else you can do but love them. Once you fall in love you're in trouble because you've open up your heart, you let someone in and now you just hope for the best and try to protect the bound. Love is not a bad thing...It's the closest thing there is to magic, no one knows what it is poet like myself have tried to define love but it's not simple.