Controversial topic

I wanted to study psychology not because I wanted to brainwash people into thinking that they aren’t the problem but to in fact point it out. Because part of human nature is to create excuses to say «  oh I am like that because something bad happened to me as a child » I am sorry to say this but someone who had something bad happened to them as a child doesn’t explain how they turn into a serial killer! It is human decency to treat others with respect especially if that person  haven’t done anything bad to you. 

One thing that stood out to me in my sophomore year of college was the Sigmund Freud theory where he point out that a boy will become infatuated with his mother and begin to consider his father as a rival! And vice versa for girls ! That stood out to me because I begin thinking what kind of sick individual was he to sexualize children this way? Then I recently found out that Sigmund Freud best friend was a child molester! And it all made sense that Sigmund Freud was covering up for his friend saying well children have sexual desires and it is proven to be true ! So how was this proven??? Did they rape a child !?? 

Psychology is a very vast field and people use it to their advantage to get away with crimes and to justify their actions by saying well I suffer from this mental illness so that’s why I act this way. Today I had a disagreement with my therapist, and I admit how a shitty person I was to my dad and that no I don’t deserve all the sympathy I get, to my dismay he was trying to tell me no this is guilt and that I do deserve to feel loved ! I was like no let me tell you how bad of a person I am you are not allowed to make me feel like a good person when I know what I’ve done wrong! That was wrong! You can’t just tell me that I didn’t know any better because I did know better but I didn’t act on my better judgments.

 Sitting down with a therapist after a break up doesn’t make you a good person! If you did something wrong in that relationship then you need to acknowledge what you did so you don’t repeat it in the future. Psychology today sweep a lot of things under the rug for the sake of being “ depressed” and I am not going to accept that because a child was mentally sick they choose to shoot up a school ! No that child had access to guns when they shouldn’t have and the parents should have done a better job. Most of the kids who shoot up schools were in fact part of the LGBTQ community! There is a correlation there because making some kids believe that their gender should be justify if they choose to change it is not normal! And it messes up a child’s brain because they are confused from what is right from wrong! Our society make a lot of things okay because everything you do whether bad or good is justify…. 

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