Self worth

Throughout life I had to learn every day what self worth is truly about. Some days I forget what it means and on those days I feel stupid for allowing myself to feel the way I feel. 

Sometimes we may accept a bad treatment from someone we love and care about not because we don’t value ourselves but because we value that person so much that we are willing to accept it. Well look at it this way if the person you’re willing to accept bad treatment from valued you do you think they would want to treat you badly? The ugly truth is that we give very little attention or we give no care at all to things (people) we don’t care or value enough. It’s bad that some of us don’t care about some people but that’s the truth. Accepting that if they cared about you the same way you care about them they wouldn’t treat you badly is the first thing in having self worth. 

Disregarding anything that is beneath our standard is a representation of our own self worth. If you believe that you deserve to be treated badly, ignored, abused, walked on, dismiss then you have no sense of self worth. No one should feel like they need to be treated badly. You deserve the best things in the whole universe. God created us to be happy, to take pleasure in the things that he gave us so why should you allow yourself to be treated poorly? 

I am big on self love but I came to the conclusion that we should love God first before everything else it is because he loved us first that we can begin to love in return. Secondly we should learn to love ourselves so that we can love our neighbor. We cannot love someone else if we don’t love ourselves (to a certain extinct) I will come back to talk about my new view on self love. For now let me talk about self worth. 

You shouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who abuse you or manipulate you in anyway. If you find yourself unhappy in a relationship the first thing you should do is leave that person, you’re not stuck or married to the person so you have the choice to leave. God want us to be happy, anyone who is adding stress to your life, making you cry, making you feel unworthy you should let them go. It’s easier said than done I know, but pray. I am not trying to shove God in anyone’s throat but if you visit my page you must know that I am a Christian and I believe in God. If you don’t you don’t have to keep reading...  a prayer can save you from getting Into more complicated situation. 

I believe that I deserve good things. Anyone who is not willing to uplift me or motivate me at the moment can exit. If I tell you something that I don’t like and you continue to do then it is really up to me to accept and I am learning to dismiss it (I don’t have to accept it) I am no longer yelling, fighting with anyone to be the way I want them to be (I can’t change anyone and nor can you) I can’t make someone love me if they don’t want to (you shouldn’t try either) the ugly truth is that they either love you or they don’t. Someone is out there waiting for you it’s a matter of time before you meet the person. Be patient let God do the work

. You and I deserve the best of the best.