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Confidence.

The art of being confident is not something you can wake up one day and attain all at once it may take a while to fully get there. In your 20s you are finding yourself and discovering what you like, it may be hard for you to accept your flaws whether physically or mentally. It might take some time before you  feel fully confident in who you are as a person but I am here to tell you that it is very possible for you to be 100% confident even if you are the most insecure person at the moment. You can change! You can become someone new! And with time  you can fall in love with yourself. 

In my early 20s I was very insecure about my body and very self aware of what people might be thinking about it eventually I did stop caring for the sake of my mental health. I had to put myself out of any environment where I didn’t feel welcome, I stopped talking to people who made weird comments about my body. With time I begin to love myself and I begin to see how beautiful I’ve always been ! It took me a while but today I can say I wouldn’t change anything and I love who I am. sure I can always work on myself wether it’s mentally by gaining more knowledge on all types of subjects or physically by going to the gym and eating the right food that will get me to where I want to be. I love my body and it took me a while to get here, going to the gym have helped me pushed myself past my limit and it has also helped me to feel more confident when I walk and improve my posture a little bit more. The moment you shut off all the outside noise and get a tunnel vision to where you want to go is the moment you truly take your power back and you begin to feel more confident in yourself each time you get closer to your goal. 

Be gentle with yourself, surround yourself with positive people and always seek ways to better yourself never become stagnant in your growth. Cultivate your mind by reading and by being in any environment that will help you gain more knowledge in anything that you are interested in. Never close your mind to knew opportunities to learn something new, be more open to embrace different cultures, different languages or anything that is out there in nature.