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"As the night settles in I think of you and I smile knowing you are somewhere under the stars, although we are miles away I hope that my love will carry you through the night as you fall asleep."
2022-01-26T18:11:26+01:00
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2022-01-26T12:39:41+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
« Every child has to grow up and leave the nest someday, every wild and eccentric animals kept as pets has to be released into the wild someday. Every good things have to come to an end.”
2022-01-25T03:23:40+01:00
Everything!
" The art of persuasive speaking is to convince the audience that the words you are speaking of are in fact everything they need to know about a particular subject."
This is going to be a fun questionnaire for both me and every person who wants to get to know me past my placid exterior, I can assure you that I feel everything deeply even if my face is not expressing anything!
Fashionnnnn.
1. What words would describe my style?
Uhm I would choose preppy, girly at times, a little edgy depending on the occasion, tomboy on winter days but also the girl next door vibe.
A little story: I remember in high school I wanted to be so preppy so bad but I didn't have the clothing pieces to dress that way and it actually costs a lot to have that look... there is a lot of vests, cardigan, trousers, polo shirts, and dress shirts involved! so I would resort to wearing a lot of turtle necks and dark blue jeans with converse and my all-time favorite combat boots; well nevertheless I used to have an iPod with a bunch of songs on it and I used to love listening to the song Vogue by Madonna while I get ready for school in the morning! and I used to strike a pose in front of the mirror as I get ready Gosh this was embarrassing!
2. Favorite items in my closet?
I would say my frog sweater vest, my blue cardigan, and a brown jacket because I love a great earthy color.
3. Favorite accessory?
I love a great pair of black sunglasses or any glasses that makes a statement, Brown purses although I used to love small purses a few years ago now I am diving in the big but fashionable purses...
4. Favorite pair of shoes?
I love high-heeled boots but I am also in love with loafers especially leather ones.
5. what is one item I would love to own?
Well, it's 2 items I want to get a Chanel number 5 perfume (I feel like every girl started to want one after Marilyn Monroe said that's what she wears to bed) and I also want a Daniel wellington watch (I started to want one in college I used to see a bunch of stylish Asian kids wearing them on the train and I said to myself "one day I am going to get one" but I never really did! well not yet)
6. Between Marilyn Monroe, Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn who do I think Is a fashion Icon?
Well, that is not so difficult! Audrey Hepburn of course !! I love her so much because of her fashion choices, her humanitarian, and the way she carried herself. Everything about her screamed high fashion in my opinion
Nature vibes
1. what is my favorite season?
It's winter. I love the cold weather and snow as well not only because I have an excuse to stay home and drink hot tea while I read my favorite book but because I also love jackets and scarves. On the subject of tea, I have been loving a great ginger tea with cinnamon lately, it's the best next to chamomille tea.
2. Do I like the beach?
Although I don't go often but I like it when it's not too crowded... I love to sit by the ocean with a lovely book or a pen and a notebook while I write anything that comes to mind; it's very inspiring.
3. Do I love plants?
Yes, I want to own a few but the last one I had died!
Dietttttt
1. What is my diet consist of?
I have a high protein diet, I eat a lot of salmon, eggs... Uhm I do love a great salad with chickpeas, salmon, and avocadoes with hard-boiled eggs. My eating habit is weird but I eat what I think is healthy for me, I also love Indian food as well as Mexican cooking ... I don't eat much greasy anymore to keep my skin clear of acne.
2. what is one thing I wish I did for my diet?
Drink a lot more water, actually, I drink more water now than I ever did before and it has been helping my skin a lot.
Musicccccc
1. Who are my favorite singers?
I have many but my top 10 are Michael Jackson, Billie Eilish, Dadju, Imen Es, Dean Martin, The Beatles, Edith Piaf, Frank Sinatra, Alessia Cara, Adele... There are many more.
2. What is my music taste?
I love a little bit of everything from love ballad to old soul, to funk, to techno, to compas, to pop, to classical, to jazz... I have just discovered Vendredi Sur Mer last week and I absolutely love her! where was I??
Bookkkkksss
1. what book am I currently reading?
I am reading a memoir called moonwalk by Michael Jackson because I love him so much.... and I think that he was extremely talented.
2. Favorite book?
I have many: " The princess saves herself in this one." by Amanda Lovelace also I love The sun and her flowers by Rupi Kaur (It's been my favorite since 2017)
3. Favorite author?
Rupi Kaur, she is a Canadian poet and I absolutely love her style of writing; I also love Pierre A Jeanty because he writes to empower women and I love his book HER.
Languageeeeeee
1. How many languages do I speak?
Haitian Creole, English, French and currently learning Italian, so 3 and a half!
2. How am I able to maintain my french?
A few people have asked me that but my french is a little rusty because I don't speak it that often and it is a hard language, But I love it so I will always buy books in french, write poetry and in my diary in french, watch movies in french whenever I can get my hands on them. I know it's weird but I also talk to myself in french! Uhm yeah, even Archie finds it weird because he often stops to stare at me with his ears pulled back, I bet he's wondering what Am I saying lol. To be honest I fell in love with writing through french books, not through English! so I will always go back to my first love.
Moviesss
1. what movies do I like to watch?
Funny, rom-coms, superhero movies especially DC, I don't like marvels. I love watching black in white films especially Sabrina with Audrey Hepburn (I watch that every Saturday nights unless there is something better)
2. favorite show right now?
I love 90's shows more than the ones we have now, so I am watching a different world with Lisa Bonet... I really love that show.
3. Favorite movies?
When Harry Met Sally, Mr. Mom, all wonder woman movies, clueless, all movies with Audrey Hepburn in it, Love Jones, Poetic Justice, little women, pride and prejudice, Belle, love and basketball, Love don't cost a thing
Uhmmm that's all Guys thank you for reading !! :)
2022-01-22T04:47:27+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
« Tu es entré dans sa vie et l’a fait croire que l’amour n’était pas si difficile à trouver,
pour ensuite la rendre dingue, accro et sans espoir.
elle croyait devenir folle,
tu lui as donné l’amour pour deux secondes et après tu as tout a pris.
t’es qu’un pervert narcissique qui ose l’offrir de la sympathie après avoir brisé son cœur.
non elle ne veux plus rien à voir avec toi,
elle est heureuse sans toi.
laisse la partir, elle mérite mieux.
t’as fais croire à la belle princesse qu’elle était juste qu’un cucendron.
elle a remit sa couronne sur la tête et le jeu a terminé »
2022-01-22T04:08:40+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" We can't be what we were, but I'll always be yours."
2022-01-22T03:43:44+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" Love is not the presence of admiration nor is it the absence of hate,
but rather the constant reminder that hate is closer than ever yet we choose to admire its intensity without letting it be known.
for there is no love without hatred."
2022-01-22T03:24:54+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
" Before one can be free, all care of being ridiculed has to be thrown out of the window."
2022-01-22T00:28:59+01:00
The art of getting to know yourself.
Our mere existence and how we came to be about is such a big mystery to many, some even believe that we are part of some evolution. Rather than accepting that God created us many want to believe that we descended from apes, which if you ask me is quite insulting to even compare our complicated brain to a living monkey! nevertheless, if I started from where we came from we might never fully understand ourselves individually.
Personally, I don't think that anyone can fully know themselves entirely because we are very unpredictable creatures and our brains are wired with such complications that we could never compare two people and expect them to react the same way. In my 25 years on earth, I have never had a moment where I knew how my life would turn out in the future just because I knew who I was; why? because life itself is unpredictable and we go through so many experiences that can change our way of thinking that we constantly have to analyze who we are as a person to fully understand why we act the way that we act. Our upbringing and our childhood surely play a big role in who we are as an adult, why we love the way we love, or why we love or hate certain things more than other people. Our Genetic coding also plays a role in our personality, I was reading a book by Susan Cain where she was describing how a child born from 2 introverted parents might grow up to be introverted, perhaps not entirely the same form of introversion but the child will surely be part of the high reactive temperament, but the similarity might differ because the child also has his own experience with life that will also shape his character as well as his ability to react to certain things a different way than his parents might've.
To get to know yourself I think that it is essential for you to take a trip down memory lane in your childhood and to also try to remember what the relationship was like between you and your caregiver. Were you neglected? did you receive any form of affection? were you smothered with love or spoiled? or was it stable and your caregiver made sure to always take care of your emotional needs as well as your physical needs?. Often times we blame ourselves because we have a hard time expressing love but it may not always be our fault... If we didn't grow up with parents that expressed their love verbally as well as through some form of action it may be hard for you to do otherwise. I think that if you are concerned about the way you love or interact with other people it might be best to find out your attachment style which will shed some light on why you may be afraid of intimacy or some form of closeness, why you are so keen on being autonomous or independent, why you depend on other people's affection or why you avoid it; there are 4 forms of attachment which are
- the secure form attachment.
- the avoidant and dismissing
- the anxious and preoccupied
- and the disorganized and unresolved
Taking some time to analyze which form of attachment is associated with you will not only help your relationship but will help you see the areas that you need to improve. There is no shame in communicating your struggles with someone you care about but of course, if you have an avoidant attachment style it might be hard to even speak about your flaws out loud with just anyone and you might not know what they are either because you dismiss the idea of something being more complicated than you actually thought... there is no judgment. We all struggle and trying to get to know yourself may be a lonely and painful path but brace yourself as you dig deep.
2022-01-20T23:36:21+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
Stop romanticizing pain and getting comfortable being hurt, leave at the first sign of any attempt to be manipulated because choosing to stay is an opportunity to be groomed for further manipulation.
2022-01-20T23:34:35+01:00
Publié depuis Eklablog
« The abuse caused by a narcissist often gets dismissed in the eyes of an empath. They feel the pain, they cry yet they make excuses and choose to hear what they want to hear. Until one day by the grace of God they wake up and realize what a mess they are in to finally see how bad they’ve been mistreated. »
be kind to yourself, maturity comes with time…