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2023-05-19T19:48:44+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 19 Mai 2023 à 07:48 PM

Dating.

It feels so weird to start over with someone new over and over again. But I’m here for it, last year I could not see myself talking to anyone new, if we weren’t friends before then you probably wouldn’t have any chance with me. Life is unexpected and that’s the beauty of it all. You never really know who you’re going to end up with, and so shutting myself off is not really helping.

I think meeting someone new is fun, it’s fresh and you can recreate yourself. You don’t have to be who you were last year, you can choose who you want to be with that person whereas if it’s with someone you’ve always known it can be kind of hard to make them believe that you are not the person they remember you as. For example I’ve dealt with depression in the past and so the people I was talking to at the time knew about it. They remember me as this shy, sad person but that’s not who I am right now! I am more confident, happier, stronger and wiser… it will be hard for them to accept the change but when I meet someone new now all they see is who I am now and that’s what I want. I don’t like it when people remember me as this sad, weak little person. I am rewriting my story and I want to be with someone who sees me for who I am now not who I was a year ago. I am not that person anymore…

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2023-05-19T19:38:00+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 19 Mai 2023 à 07:38 PM

“ crying is moving on, not being able to sleep is moving on, reminiscing about the past is also moving on. There is no right way to forget someone, they will always be part of your story and that’s okay. Accept what happened and cherish the beautiful moments you had with them because life is all about beautiful moments shared with everyone you meet.”

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2023-05-19T16:08:55+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 19 Mai 2023 à 04:08 PM

Man who has pets are honestly the cutest and most charming. Knowing that you care for your dog or you cat is so cute because that’s literally your baby. It shows that you have a sense of responsibility and you get 10 more points in my book ❤️❤️

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2023-05-18T19:15:05+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 18 Mai 2023 à 07:15 PM

champions league talk !

manchester city qualify for the champions league final yesterday by taking out Real Madrid !!! I was so excited because I wanted to win so bad. I love the Manchester team! They are so talented and strong together. That’s what we need at PSG but it feels like everyone is doing their own thing at psg and if they want to win they have to work together just like Manchester city !!! I want them to win this years champions league for the first time!!! I want either Haaland or Mbappe to win ballon d’or this year even though it looks like Messi might win it because he won the World Cup

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2023-05-17T22:28:05+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 17 Mai 2023 à 10:28 PM

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2023-05-17T17:03:47+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 17 Mai 2023 à 05:03 PM

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2023-05-17T16:52:45+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 17 Mai 2023 à 04:52 PM

Télécharger « Écoute Ça Recording.mp3 »

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2023-05-17T01:41:23+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 17 Mai 2023 à 01:41 AM

« i remember when I cried myself to sleep because he wouldn’t take my call. This comeback is more than personal it’s an apology to myself because I deserve so much better. »

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2023-05-16T21:52:53+02:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 16 Mai 2023 à 09:52 PM

What’s going on.

It has come to my attention that a lot of YouTubers who were part of the natural hair community are putting relaxers in their hair. I am not judging anyone and my blog is not a way for me to talk bad about people but it’s a way for me to express myself and have a voice. This is just my opinion, you can do whatever you want with your hair; you can cut it, go bald, dye it or perm it I don’t care.

You all know I put a texturizer in my hair in 2020 after the pandemic because I was under a lot of stress and I became tired of my natural hair. For those of you that doesn’t know what a texturizer is I will explain: it’s a chemical product you put on your hair to make it straighter or less curly it’s not like a perm that will just make your hair straight but it’s still a chemical. Me personally I will stay away from perm and texturizers because those things can cause uterine cancer, they can damage your hair and cause hair loss. I will not use this in my house ever again not on me and especially not on my kids when I have kids. Look I get it having natural hair is not for the weak, it takes a whole day for you to wash your hair and style it. On top of spending a lot of time on your hair, the hair products are soooo expensive! I went to my local beauty supply store to buy products because I have really thick hair so my products doesn’t last that long… and my hair is growing I don’t know what I will do when it reaches my back! I need to start saving money now lol anyway I spend a lot of money to keep my hair moisturized. I didn’t spend that much money when I had a relaxer in my hair but my hair was falling off like crazy too.

It’s dangerous to use relaxers in your hair because it causes a lot of health problems, most relaxers and hair smoothing products release formaldehyde gas which is basically poison like why do I want that?. Those relaxers also burns your scalp ( my scalp is still recovering from the burns I got in 2021!) and you are just destroying your hair more and more each time you put in your hair. If I want straight hair I can just get a straight wig or straighten my own hair with heat ( I also don’t like yo use heat on my hair not even a hair dryer). I am not doing relaxers anymore, I learned my lesson.

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2023-05-15T23:45:39+02:00

listen.

Publié par Gaelle.R 15 Mai 2023 à 11:45 PM

will 2023 be the death of me? yes, I think it might be lol but I leave everything in God's hands and am doing everything I can to survive. I am not giving up! I am probably the most courageous, hard-working person I know! I have been through so much alone that I never talked about it with anyone except my mama. My mother is my only best friend we talk about everything, she opens up with me because she knows I only trust her, we have this thing where I say " I need you to be my friend now" meaning we will talk about everything without any filter because at this point I am not her daughter I am just her friend when we're done talking about it she says " okay mwen vle pitit fim kounya" meaning I want my daughter now.

people can judge me for all the things that I am not doing but I KNOW WHAT I AM DEALING WITH, they don't know! nobody is calling me checking in on me or giving me money. I am the only one who got me, I am the only one providing for me. I don't care about anyone judging me for not driving everywhere you don't know how my bank account is set up, don't judge me if I can only afford to take my religious meetings on Zoom you have no idea what I am going through... I think it's so insensitive when we judge someone about all the things they aren't doing while we don't even know what the person is going through. Be kind to everyone, be understanding, we are in the middle of a recession, and times are hard.

If you aren't helping then leave me alone, I got a lot to deal with right now and I don't have time for silly games.

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