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2024-12-16T13:08:29+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 16 Décembre 2024 à 01:08 PM

Are cops really the problem?

In 2020 when the Black Lives Matter movement started and everyone wanted to be an activist or woke someone approached me at work. She was white (it doesn’t matter to me I am stating her race to show how people from different races think they can connect with one another, she did get it wrong though) she said “ police are dogs right after what they did to George Floyd” she took me by surprise because I wasn’t talking to her and I was just trying to do my job. I said “ I don’t have any opinion on that but I respect the police because they save lives everyday”

She was taking aback by my answer because other people agreed but I didn’t. I thought to myself: just because I’m black doesn’t mean I hate the police! I respect them and if they pull me over I’m not going to act smart or raise my voice I am just going to do what they ask me to do and stay calm and collected. If they arrest me I’m not going to record anything because they have a dash cam! And if one bad cop arrest me by mistake then my lawyer will defend me. I’m not going to fight a cop! That’s stupid and I don’t have a death wish. I respect everyone until you prove me wrong even then I won’t take revenge on you because that’s not my job (God sees everything and he knows my heart)

I respect the police and I have nothing bad to say about them. I have nothing but positive interactions with them.

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2024-12-16T12:57:01+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 16 Décembre 2024 à 12:57 PM

Controversial topics.

Let’s end the year discussing topics that are debatable even if a certain groups of people are deadlock on the issue at hand. I have my opinions, not that you asked but I will give it to you anyway.

The death of the united health CEO:

A man was gunned down in public on a Manhattan street this month and the public is thrilled. How did we get here? People are happy because this man died, they’re saying he deserved to die because of all the people who died because of lack of coverage by their insurance. Killing a man because your insurance will not cover some procedures is not going to solve anything.

Part of my job is to contact peoples insurance and obtain prior authorizations to see what’s covered or not and often times some procedures are not covered then the patient has to either pay out of pocket or accept another minor procedure. The fact that people are happy that this guy is dead shows that we are really living in the last days! People are selfish and only cares about themselves. I don’t know whether that man was good or not but it should be a sad thing to see someone being murdered ! It’s not normal. That man has a family and I assume they are heartbroken because a heartless man chose to kill him.

The man that committed the murder has received a lot of praise and people love him for doing a senseless act!

An insurance company cannot approve every procedures otherwise they would run out of business! United health is not the only insurance company that does it, now are we going around killing every single health insurance ceo ?!

That guy did not made history at all! He just killed someone and he should be in jail for doing that. We are not God we cannot decide who should live or die.

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2024-12-16T04:00:06+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 16 Décembre 2024 à 04:00 AM

Saturday.

Yesterday my gym session was amazing! I am so sore right now! I can barely walk. I lifted heavier than ever! I was surprised to see how much weight I could really lift because I trained to failure and think that’s what my saturdays are going to be about now! Just train to failure, I know I’m going to have trouble walking the next day but that’s the only pain I am willing to take at the moment. Bye now I’m have to go snuggle Archie :)

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2024-12-14T23:37:33+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 14 Décembre 2024 à 11:37 PM

Upset.

this week after my phone crashed I lost a bunch of my contacts and pictures I took from October last year basically I lost all My pictures from my vacation 😭 I am so upset. I lost all my messages from this year because my phone was never backed up.

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2024-12-14T03:57:09+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 14 Décembre 2024 à 03:57 AM

Story time.

A guy approached me at the gym recently while I was doing my work out well actually I was in the middle of switching exercises and getting some stuff to work out with. He bumped into me and the first thing he says was “hey can we be friends” I pull my headphones aside because I am always wearing my noise canceling headphones and they’re big so I was like “what” then he repeated what he said. Someone asking me can we be friends sounds so innocent but I knew that’s not what he meant. But when I look at his face I could tell he seems nice so that’s why I did what I did next.

He looked very young so I asked him how old he was and he said 25 ( I don’t talk to anyone younger than me, I just see you like my little brother I’m sorry) I knew he didn’t have a chance to start with because I don’t date anyone outside of my religious beliefs ( so there’s nothing there because we’re not equally yoke) he kept asking questions then the final big one ( can I have your number ) oh boy ugh so yes I gave it to him because I didn’t know what else to do plus I was dizzy after my sets lol I could barely seen him. I knew I wasn’t going to talk to him, then he came next to me while I was doing my cardio he was a little annoying because he kept talking my ears off. Ugh I already don’t like talking at the gym, we can just work out in silence we don’t need to talk. So that bothered me. Immediately after I left and I mean right in the parking lot I just blocked him. Sorry it’s a no for me. I saw him again today and guessed what I looked right past him because baby I’m not the one for you and you’re not the one for me.

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2024-12-13T19:16:10+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 13 Décembre 2024 à 07:16 PM

I saw a quote that says “ once you are married your spouse become more important than your parents” I don’t agree at all!

Your parents are the ones who brought you into this world and if the person you love truly loves you they will be very grateful that your parents made someone like you. I wouldn’t let my husband talk to his mother any which way or my mother either! You need to respect your parents! You need to love them, you need to be there for them. Ignoring them for your spouse is disgusting! Your spouse is important and so is your parents.

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2024-12-13T16:42:43+01:00

take this with a grain of salt.

Publié par Gaelle.R 13 Décembre 2024 à 04:42 PM

This is solely my opinion from my observation, I am not being conceited at all if anything I have many insecurities and that's okay because we all do.

From what I see some girls are either very jealous of me or they go out of their way to ignore me like girl I saw you looking at me with your dirty looks which I literally thrive on, I love it I will make you even more sick with my dramatics. perhaps it's because I don't look friendly at first, so they think I'm a B*** but that's just my face, I am actually really nice when you speak to me. I am not the one to start being friendly if you gave me no reason to be, I am very standoff-ish, reserved, out of the mix. I do my own thing, I have my own style, my own interest overall I am just who I am, and some people have a problem with that. You know what's funny? half of the times when I stay by myself and not engage, I am just anxious, but some people think that I think that I am better than them! well, I blame my shyness and my anxiety in public. some people take my confidence as arrogance but baby I work out 5 days a week to look like that do you know how tiring that is!? it's through tears and sweat I achieved this, and I just started they really gonna be sick in a year lol. I wasn't born with my body I had to work hard in the gym for it and I am a girl's girl I can give you my work out routine and teach you if you want. I am really sweet and nice when I feel welcome. I don't care who hate me, I'm always going to be who I am and that's someone: who speaks her mind, love Jehovah, love cats, love football and does her own thing. I don't mind being alone.

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2024-12-13T03:03:31+01:00

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Publié par Gaelle.R 13 Décembre 2024 à 03:03 AM

I’m the worse person to ask to give you space, I’m barely alive and trust me when I say “you’ll never hear from me again.”Talking to me is a privilege in itself, cherish every moment because you can wake up blocked tomorrow. I say goodbye to anyone, no one is special.

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2024-12-12T15:46:45+01:00

you

Publié par Gaelle.R 12 Décembre 2024 à 03:46 PM

wish I could stop time when we're together,

wish you wouldn't have to leave.

wish you could stay.

for you baby 💗💖

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2024-12-11T15:11:21+01:00

the honeymoon phase

Publié par Gaelle.R 11 Décembre 2024 à 03:11 PM

Imagine this you just started dating someone you really like, and everything is going great for the first 2 weeks, you both communicate well and express how much you love each other then suddenly the arguments start... let me give you, my opinion (not that you asked)

the number one reason couples fight at first is mainly for attention, or for miscommunications. The only way to resolve this is to be honest to each other and to be completely transparent. Let them know when you are unavailable (don't just assume they know because they might take that as a sign that you are ignoring them) at the beginning of a relationship the bound is fragile and they don't fully trust you yet, trust comes with time so you will need to give them a reason to trust you by being honest.

If you are fighting for every little thing or have frequent fall outs in the first 6 months or 1 year into the relationship, then it's probably not the right person for you. No matter how in love you are, you deserve someone who understands you or who's willing to put in the effort to understand you and to learn your own language (meaning your way of talking, your sarcasm, your love language) If you are already fighting imagine what it will be like 5 years into a marriage?! for me I can't deal with any fights, I need peace. if you are toxic then that's when I will give you your money's worth and I hate being toxic. I want a soft love where we are both honest with one another and tell each other everything.

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