self doubt

Hi there,

First of all my main goal for this blog is to help somebody and to tell somebody something that they been wanting to hear.Second of all my second goal for this blog is to help myself because writing is therapeutic to me, it makes me feel better. When I'm mad or when I'm about to cry I reach for a paper and a pen or I just reach for my phone and go right to notes. Which is why sometimes you may feel the pain in my writing, you may feel that I am sad or happy through my writing because I use my emotions as inspiration. It's all about the mood among other things.

self doubt?

I know if you keep reading this after my unnecessary long intro then you must really want to know what I have to say about this topic. Perhaps you want to stop doubting yourself and you thought about how much you doubt yourself and how you need to stop. You probably thought about ways to stop doubting yourself but listen to me, the first step you need to take about doubting yourself is to realize that it's okay for you to doubt yourself. Now it's time for you to accept the fact that you are doubting yourself, maybe it's because you failed at something and it is okay to fail. You are not going to get it right in the first try or even in the second try what you need to do is keep on trying and you will eventually succeed. With success comes failure. In order for you to succeed you had to fail to realize where you went wrong and to know that it wasn't right. some people learn through other people's mistakes too but they still make mistakes on their own. We all going to fail it's what we do after that failure that counts. Are you going to get up and keep going? or are you going to sit down and feel like a loser and cry about it? put that in your mind " giving up is not an option" so what if I failed at something? I am not stupid because I failed ! I am maturing, I am growing, I am realizing things that I did not know. we all need to fail to know what success feels like because if we always succeed and get what we want then we wouldn't know what real success is because we always win in the end. You need to be a loser to feel like a winner. You need to feel sadness to know what happiness is. Just because I failed at something does not make me less of a person than I already am. Just because I didn't get it right when I was suppose to doesn't mean that I am never going to get right. I know we all want success. we all want to feel like our relationships are succeeding, that we acing a class, that we get the job we want. We all want to feel like we did something right but deep down we always doubt ourselves before we got there. It's okay to doubt yourself because doubting is a fear that you might win and that you might lose also. Now you and I need to keep our eyes on the finish line and stop the negative thoughts in our heads because that fear is what is stopping us. We can do it we just need to be fearless and take more action instead of saying what if.