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Hey there,

This one has no title because honestly I couldn't think of one I just wanted to write this as it was already in my mind. Okay I saw a post online and it says "Not all relationships will lead to marriage, some will help you discover new restaurants" At first I started laughing because it's true for some people they just casually go on dates just for the food with no interest for the person they are out with.

Besides the humor behind the post it's actually sad you know. Like I was thinking the whole point of being in a relationship with someone was not for not the cute pics on instagram just so people could comment "relationship goals" and it was not really about you proving to your friends or anyone that you have a man or a girl...I think It's wayyyy deeper than that. I see relationship as a commitment and I think personally if someone is not in it for the long run they should wait and take some time to get their mind in the right place. I am not scared of the process of being single, you could do a lot of things when you're alone like you can hide things, you can be the version that you try to hide in front of the person you really love and care about just because you feel that you have to be just right for them. When you get in a relationship all that is doing is shed some light to who you're really are, it's showing someone else your flaws, your weakness, your worse days, your fears, you being upset, you being selfish...when you're alone you don't see all of that, you think you're just right until you get in a relationship for the first time you realize how imperfect you are.

Relationship is not always about agreeing on the same thing always. If you find someone who agrees with everything you say it's just boring, there's no growth like you're not learning anything from each other. It's about teaching one another, supporting one another, being there for one another, lifting them up when they're down and that is vice versa, appreciate them despite their flaws, accepting their bad qualities because at the end of the day we are all imperfect and being patient.... So no relationship is not about going on restaurants and eating good foods that is just a bonus.