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Technical love?

Is love technical ? Meaning do you have to do something to trigger love from someone? I came across this lady on tiktok who talks about feminine energy and masculine energy and how a woman can attract a man in a way to make him fall in love faster. She even says “ the only reason a man ghost you is because of your mindset” oh wow thanks! So it’s my fault he wants nothing to do with me, I guess I have to change the way that I think! Why didn’t I think of that wow (that’s me being sarcastic!)

I don’t believe in anything she says because the same way I am able to like you and want to spend time with you without you having to manipulate me I believe you can do the same without me having to do anything because you didn’t do anything for me to fall for you. I think love is natural, you don’t have to fight for it to be there, you don’t have to overthink it because it just simply happens. He doesn’t want to spend time with you and hang out with you because he doesn’t want to bond with you meaning he doesn’t like you. People gravitates to what interest them so if he is not calling me or initiating any plans with me then he doesn’t like me; it’s that simple. I don’t have to force anything, change my way of thinking will do nothing, be more submissive won’t make him to want to be with me, buying  him gifts or manipulating him is just a waste of time because we all have free will. The same way he can decide to ghost me and never talks to me again is the same way I can do that too. We all can chose to be with whoever we want to be with if the other person feels the same way of course. 

So no I don’t believe in any science on how to make a man fall in love with me; before you say then why are you researching how to make a man fall in love? let me just say this lady just showed up on my feed I didn’t even look for her.  People talking about how to make someone love you irritates me,  because am I  that hard to love that I have to research how to make someone love me!?

I feel like if I have to create strategies for you to like me then it’s clear and simple that you don’t want to be with me. Things like  not texting you fast in order for you to get anxious and think about me or do things for you to fall in love with me is pointless to me, yes i might be able to get on your mind but I will only be there for a short period of time, it doesn’t necessarily mean that I am captivating you. I want you to fall in love because it’s natural and it feels right because half of the people I had a crush on did nothing but I still liked them very much. I don’t want to force anything, I will continue to focus on me and doing what feels right and if you want to be with me then that’s on you I will not force you to chose me; if anything I will set you free but if you come back to me then it was meant to be.