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Blessings will come when you least expect it. 

I saw a video online of a man playing with a cat in a box and dragging the box on the floor like a train, I thought it was cute because the cat was so happy in the box. The woman who posted the video caption the video saying “ my ex used to criticize me and making me feel bad  for spoiling my cats but my now fiancé loves my cat and plays with them like they’re his” and I got emotional reading the caption because there was a few guys who made me feel bad for loving my cats this video just proved to me that we all have our own soulmate and it’s okay if you’re not someone’s cup of tea but trust me there is someone out there who will love every parts of you even the parts that you hate. 

Under that same video I read a few comments from women who were testifying about how badly their ex used to make them feel about things that they like and how their new partner embraced what they like by supporting them. There was this one girl that says that her ex used to make her feel so bad for loving hello kitty plushies because he used to say that loving such things is childish but now her current boyfriend buys her hello kitty plushies and all things that has hello kitty on it; I thought that was so cute.

I am a child at heart, I love many things that some people might find childish but to me they are not because that’s what I like so therefore I find a lot pleasure in it. I came to the realization that someone who truly loves you will never make you feel bad for loving something that is not dangerous or bad but will support you and maybe even fall in love with it because they love you.

I know my man will loves me and my cats because when you see me you see cats lol and so if I find someone who doesn’t like cats I just know that I will be miserable for the rest of my life so we can end it, right here and right now because it’s not going to Work. Sorry but not sorry.