My red flags in men.
- Popular. I don’t mind that a lot of people know you or that you know a lot of people but if you’re friends with everyone and you’re always with them even when it’s suppose to be our time then no honey it won’t work because I crave quality time. I would rather find someone who’s basically nonexistent meaning no social media nothing, he might as well be a ghost lol.
- A lot of followers and you follow a lot girls. Uhm see cuz no! I don’t like that because you probably have a lot of Dms and who followed who first? Like are you the one seeking those girls?
- Has a lot of female friends. It’s weird that you are always talking to girls and it’s a huge red flag for me. I don’t like that either.
- You call me baby in the first month! Uhm do you not know my name? And since when are we using pet names without each others permission because that’s unacceptable and I am not your girlfriend.
- You talk about my body a lot. It makes me feel weird, I’ll take a few compliments but if you always want to talk about my looks or sex then no (unless I give you permission and you will know because I wouldn’t stop the conversation but that’s rare too)
- You want money from me. I am not a sugar mama, and I am not a bank who loans money either. Especially if we’re not dating even if we were that’s weird too, it will make me feel like you’re using me.
- You post a lot of pictures online. Like why?