My red flags in a talking stage or in a relationship.
- If we just started talking and you never ask me how I’m doing, after 2 days I’m leaving you on read. Because at this point you clearly showing me that you don’t want to know about my well-being but that’s okay I will just leave because there are some people who are begging to know how I am.
- If we are in a relationship why are you responding to girls dms who want to get to know you! Like are you looking for something else because clearly I’m the love of your life or are you trying to tell me something? Like it’s time for you to go because at this point the minute you’re replying to other girls you are cheating on me.
- You touch me without my consent. I don’t like being touch especially when I am not expecting it. If I want you to touch me you will know, if I want a hug from you, I will initiate it. Don’t touch me on the first date! I don’t do all that.
- You are on your phone the whole time we’re together. Listen I am losing my patience more and more each day if I get the slightest hint that you don’t want to talk to me I will leave and I will not regret it. ( at this point in my life I don’t care much about men I just want to be happy and travel, but the fact that I am giving you my time you need to appreciate it just like I appreciate you when you give me your time.)
- You don’t remember my name! Wow let’s end it right now lol before we get into something.
- You don’t compliment me, and you don’t appreciate the little things I do for you. Well that’s my cue to go, have fun because the vibes are off and I don’t have time to beg you for anything. But wait before I go will talk to you about the issue but if you don’t change it then I’m done.