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New habits. 

I have been doing a lot of things that were detrimental to me and to the people around me… and I want to change this so what better way to start on the first day of 2024! I advise everyone who read my blog to create new goals for themselves you can take some of my goals and new habits that may apply to you. 

I know some days I won’t do these things because I will say that I am “tired” or “sad” but I don’t want to use those excuses anymore! I want to push myself even if I don’t want to. Because of my bad habits I didn’t enjoy 2023 and I was living in the past! I never really accepted that 2022 was over in my mind. So let’s start this year fresh!

• Stop using my phone as soon as I wake up to go on social media. When I wake up I used to go straight to Instagram or tiktok. Now if I pick up my phone it’s to go on jw.org to read the daily text.
• Delete tiktok and other detrimental social media accounts. The only social media I have it’s my cat’s Instagram and it makes me happy when I post cat content so that will remain. Last night on 12/31/2023 I deleted my tiktok. 
• Pray before getting out of bed. Starting the day with a prayer before I even put my feet down on the floor is a great way to prioritize what’s more important.
• Read the Bible daily. I am not ashamed to admit I didn’t do this at all in 2023 and that’s why I felt so lost and I want to draw closer to Jehovah this year… let’s all use this year to draw close to God ;)
• Call my family! The only person I called was my mother. I didn’t call anyone else and I want to change that because I know they all love me and I love them as well! It’s okay for me to trust them and it’s okay for me to let them into my life. 
• Cook more. I need to cook more meals at home instead of eating out!
• I need to stop doordashing take out so much! I spent too much money eating out while my fridge was full but I was too lazy to cook!
• Go out more! I spent the majority of 2023 in the house away from everyone. This year I want to go out even if it’s alone.
• Stop declining invitations! Just go don’t think about it too much.
• Keep my car clean! My car is a mess and it has been like that for the whole entire year. I don’t like mess but because I was numb to everything I didn’t even notice until I had to give someone a ride.
• Make a list of all the things you want to improve in my personality. (I already wrote it down but I will add more because there is a lot I need to change)
• Focus on Jehovah this year. Forget boys, friends that are not even my friends… anything else that is distracting. 
• Stop acting cold. I am not a cold-hearted person but I love acting like to protect myself! I need to stop that because I always get hurt in the end. It’s okay to be vulnerable.
• Make the bed before going out. I stopped making my bed for some time now! This is how disconnected I was! I need to keep up the good habits.
• Clean house. From someone who used to clean my apartment daily and constantly I stopped doing it. Now I want to go back to keep my space clean it will really help me think and figure out what I need to do
• Watch less tv because that took all my time in 2023 and I don’t want that to happen again this year.
• stop dragging to life! girl be happy or at least fake it! stop walking around with your head down and stop lowering yourself in your seat. I need to be more grateful because I have everything I need and I am no better than anyone else. 
• give thanks To God daily. I will find something to thank God for because there is so much goodness in my life that I'll never be able to thank God enough. Being Thankful will make me realize all the good things that I have in my life.