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I think the most controversial thing about me is that my love language is physical touch but I hate being touched by just anyone.

Growing up my mother was very affectionate towards me, I grew up being really spoiled. She would cuddle me a lot and hold me, my mother’s love language is also physical touch! When she dropped me off at the airport last time we were holding hands the whole time and my head was on her shoulder. She’s my safe haven! I love her to death! But besides being in a very warm environment I had some terrible experiences and I knew I couldn’t let just anyone touch me. Now if I don’t like you, you’re not a close friend, I’m not attracted to you in any way then you’re not allowed to touch me at all because it’s an invasion of my privacy and I don’t give anyone that opportunity. I have been friends with people for decades and they’ve never touched me or was even allowed to hug me lol it’s not that I don’t trust those people it’s because I don’t feel comfortable enough to let them touch me. 

In my relationship I would prefer someone who loves physical touch because that’s how I express my love well at least one of the ways. I have to be touching a part of your body it could be your finger, your shoulder, your hands or even a kneecap lol I need your body next to me better yet let me inside your clothes nah I’m playing lol but no I need you and I don’t think that person understands just how much I crave them! Like I need your body 24/7 even if I’m just next to you doing my own thing; we don’t have to do anything I could be reading a book or writing and you could be doing your own thing but having your body close by is all I need :)