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As an avoidant style girlie this won’t work!

• The game guys play by talking to you for a week and ghosting you the next week uhm sorry that won’t work on me, It used to though but the older I get the less I care! I was actually planning on ghosting you as well so you saved me the trouble. I have my own problems to deal with I don’t care if you don’t want to talk to me. It might hurt for 5 minutes but I will move on! I’ve been hurt so much that being forgotten doesn’t hurt anymore I just don’t care. 
• If you don’t call me, I might never call you. But I actually like you! The thing is if you love me you will have to do a lot of work at first then when I realize wow this guy actually loves me then I will start calling you but if you don’t make it clear to me then you’re just a friend I talk to once in a while and that’s fine with me because I’m already afraid of commitments.
• I went through a lot of traumatic events as a child which is why today I have this attachment style but it took me a while to accept this! Because I avoid everything! The first thing to solve a problem is to admit you have a problem. I want to have a secure attachment style :(
• Saying I’ll call you back but you don’t call me back as a tactic to make me think about you. I used to care because the last time someone told me I’ll call you back they died! I am more mad that you don’t call me back than I actually miss you! I will end up hating you for not keeping your word. So you are doing more harm than good; if you say to me “I’ll call you back” just make sure you do if you care about me. 
• I’d rather do the things I love which are: reading, playing video games, going to the gym, watching movies, sleeping, eat than to bother you lol you will never have to worry about me because I am always busy.  You must chase me if you want me because I have no problems being alone.